grik Posted March 10, 2017 Posted March 10, 2017 its been a year together in this long distance relationship now and to be honest i dont know anymore i love her and dont want any one else but i have hit a wall where im tired now. in this relationship i have been the one that tries to make things right everytime i apologise even when im not at fault, i make the effort, she never seems to think she has to do that as well she offended me a week ago this day when she tried calling but i couldnt talk because i was in a minibus on my way home and there was noise and i can never hear i have to use my earphones which i didnt have she knows,i answered and told her i would call back in 10minutes when i get off and she hungup next thing she sends a message dont bother calling me, when i saw that i didnt have the energy anymore to make her understand cause thats all i ever do and never responded then she sends messages saying the only reason you cannot talk to me is because you with other women but not that polite and i just got so angry i explained to her why and told her i wont and cannot keep begging her to understand me becuase when she gets angry she doesnt answer my calls and has this attitude she gives me and its every time and told her when shes ready to be reasonable and wants to talk to me she will talk to me and spent 7days without talking thats what she does and expects me to fold in and make things right. today she called in the morning asking i blocked you on whatsapp howcome you never said anything does it mean you not willing to fight for us anymore and i told her i cannot keep protecting her because im afraid she will be mad told her so many things and she just said im sorry i hurt you bye. i love her with everything i have but she is stubborn, inconsiderate feel she takes advantage because she is older than me and i dont know what to do a part of me is telling me to reach out and talk to her another part doesnt want to feel this way.
goldway90 Posted March 10, 2017 Posted March 10, 2017 Just end it and save yourself from the drama. 1
smackie9 Posted March 10, 2017 Posted March 10, 2017 LDR's have a short shelf life....yours has now expired. 2
preraph Posted March 10, 2017 Posted March 10, 2017 Have you even met her face to face and dated? If not, I would just tell you all attraction will probably end if you were seeing the real person. Anyway, it would be insane for jealousy to reach this point if you have not met, so I hope you do see each other enough to warrant this kind of attachment. Unless you can see an end to the long distance and feel that would resolve things, why waste you time.
OnlyHonesty Posted March 10, 2017 Posted March 10, 2017 i apologise even when im not at fault Being a doormat is no good for any relationship, or life in general. Would you have any respect for a man that apologized for stuff that wasn't even his fault?
act00 Posted March 10, 2017 Posted March 10, 2017 Your subconscious mind is recognizing all kinds of red flags, while your conscious mind and heart are trying to work around that and get back to how things were when you first met. You got off the bus with a message not to call, and for a brief moment, you followed your subconscious, you were just too tired to justify yourself and defend yourself once again, and you didn't. Did that feel good for just a little bit? Remember that feeling. The freedom.
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