ashy555 Posted March 9, 2017 Posted March 9, 2017 Geee what a headache!!! This is why dating can be so complicated but does not need to be. She doesn't want to be with you but doesn't want you dating anyone else?! Bit selfish. Tell her you are either together, or you are NOT. If not then you date others. If she doesn't change her mind then you got your answer. Wow...
act00 Posted March 9, 2017 Posted March 9, 2017 I'm really confused on the dynamics here and I guess the terminology. What I'm gathering, is you two aren't really "together," as in dating, spending time alone together, kissing. So you're just talking, and she wants you to not talk or go out with other girls, but she is unwilling to go out with you and date you. I see all kinds of wrong with that. I don't think it's unusual that when you date, like go out and hold hands and kiss, and maybe sex, you become exclusive. You're not married, you have just agreed that you will not date other people, nor actively seek out new relationships. If you're not actively seeing each other romantically, just talking and flirting, she is wrong to tell you to not actively pursue a love interest, or not even talk to other girls, while she decides what in the world she wants to do. She needs to pee or get off the potty. She can't keep you dangling on the edge of her inability to make a decision. She likes you or she doesn't. End of story. It is absolutely unfair to leave you dangling on a "maybe."
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