Popsicle Posted March 9, 2017 Posted March 9, 2017 Imajerk, what if she actually has a long face? j/k I think too the responsibility goes both ways. I find some married or older (than me) women more sociable--which in turn make it easier for me to socialize with them. Same thing, women with extroverted friendly personalities, easier to socialize with. I was at a party. There was a married lady and single lady. Both I have briefly met and chatted with before and are my age group. Married lady and I see each other across the room and instantly socialize at the party. Single lady, who I am interested in, I walk by her and she doesn't say squat. I don't say squat. We kind of acknowledge each other and that was it. Both socialized with others at the party and we never ended up socializing. We're both social people, so if the opportunity presented itself better I think we would have socialized, but that never happened. Yes this is very common and it's why bubbly, friendly and talkative girls will always have a boyfriend. 1
Popsicle Posted March 9, 2017 Posted March 9, 2017 And in regards to the OP, confidence goes a long way. You talk to the girls anyway.
elaine567 Posted March 9, 2017 Posted March 9, 2017 Blue collar guys not "educated"??? And who's to say those girls weren't dumbells?? TFY Of course, but you know exactly what I mean here.
Jj66 Posted March 9, 2017 Posted March 9, 2017 Given the situation you describe I would have done absolutely nothing. They weren't approachable and it qas a taco joint. Why waste my energy? I'd wait for some lower hanging fruit. I always had dates when I wanted them but cold approaching a group across the room was not in my usual repertoire. I've had a lot of success chatting up two women sitting next to me when I could overhear the conversation and interject some appropriate humor, but approaching a group on the other side of the room is just not something I'd normally do. I can only remember one time and I had a wingman. 1
thefooloftheyear Posted March 9, 2017 Posted March 9, 2017 If you can't even talk to a girl or ask her out, I don't know how you'd be able to do things in life that are more serious. You might be surprised.... TFY
Imported Posted March 9, 2017 Posted March 9, 2017 You said they purposely avoided eye contact. I'd have done nothing but enjoyed my carne asada taco's with lime squeezed over and a negra modello. There are always other women that will find me attractive and go out of their way to make it apparent. Nothing has to happen with women that aren't showing me anything because they're shy or because they're just not interested for whatever reason. I saw a guy try to hit on a girl at the gym a couple nights back. It was very cringe worthy. The girl was trying to be nice and end it without being insulting, but the dude seemed oblivious. Finally she just got rude, told him BYE! and walked away. I lol'd. Give me cues you are interested, maybe I approach. Otherwise I leave you alone and you can go check your online dating profile later or whatever. 3
Recommended Posts