emsx0x Posted March 7, 2017 Posted March 7, 2017 Hello all. So there's this really cute guy that works at this coffee shop that I go to and he is super nice, smiles and looks at me while talking, we've chatted twice (I know I know it could just be friendly) I was wondering your opinion on how I can ask him out (or preferably get him to ask me out haha since I don't like asking guys out) He is British and here on a working holiday so that's what I've talked to him about. Should I just keep going there and being friendly and hope that he asks me out or should I say something
Author emsx0x Posted March 7, 2017 Author Posted March 7, 2017 hahahah just say "hey here is my number!" awkward!
JuneL Posted March 7, 2017 Posted March 7, 2017 hahahah just say "hey here is my number!" awkward! Give me a call if you want me to show you around ;-) 3
smackie9 Posted March 7, 2017 Posted March 7, 2017 hahahah just say "hey here is my number!" awkward! Women do it all the time....well women who are not afraid of going after what they want. 3
rester Posted March 7, 2017 Posted March 7, 2017 Just give him your number...... Do this ^^^ (have it written down on a piece of paper) Give me a call if you want me to show you around ;-) and then say that ^^^ 5
CaliforniaGirl Posted March 7, 2017 Posted March 7, 2017 Give me a call if you want me to show you around ;-) Yes...perfect....try this and let us know what happens! 1
Author emsx0x Posted March 7, 2017 Author Posted March 7, 2017 Hmm thanks for the ideas guys I just might do that next time if I get enough courage. But if he never called me I wouldn't go back in there
JuneL Posted March 7, 2017 Posted March 7, 2017 Hmm thanks for the ideas guys I just might do that next time if I get enough courage. But if he never called me I wouldn't go back in there Maybe you can first warm up by asking if he's seen much of the area, and mentioning a couple of interesting places to visit. 1
act00 Posted March 7, 2017 Posted March 7, 2017 I want to live vicariously through you. Give him your number and let him know to call if he wants someone to show him around. If he doesn't call, he may be spoken for, or he may have a full schedule, but who knows what the future may bring. I can't tell you how often I have wished I had the guts to ask someone out. There was clear indication of attraction and even hinting. The thing is, the employee probably cannot ask out the patrons. There could be ramifications to that, so they may hope that the patron extends the invitation. You risk rejection, of course, or even hookups, but you won't look back and wonder...if only. I will try to take my own advice. 1
Author emsx0x Posted March 7, 2017 Author Posted March 7, 2017 Sooo true!! I am sick of living life wondering if only, ya know?? I'm gonna do it and I'll let you all know how it goes. Gonna wait until next week though haha as I only go in there once or every couple weeks (so it doesn't seem obsessive of me) haha 1
Jj66 Posted March 8, 2017 Posted March 8, 2017 Sooo true!! I am sick of living life wondering if only, ya know?? I'm gonna do it and I'll let you all know how it goes. Gonna wait until next week though haha as I only go in there once or every couple weeks (so it doesn't seem obsessive of me) haha Good luck!
JuneL Posted March 27, 2017 Posted March 27, 2017 Sooo true!! I am sick of living life wondering if only, ya know?? I'm gonna do it and I'll let you all know how it goes. Gonna wait until next week though haha as I only go in there once or every couple weeks (so it doesn't seem obsessive of me) haha How did it go?
Author emsx0x Posted March 28, 2017 Author Posted March 28, 2017 How did it go? I chickened out :/ I kinda got involved with another guy who turned out to be a total *******, so that was distracting me but I might still I this guy my number. But I haven't even gone in the coffee shop at all!
coolheadal Posted March 28, 2017 Posted March 28, 2017 Hello all. So there's this really cute guy that works at this coffee shop that I go to and he is super nice, smiles and looks at me while talking, we've chatted twice (I know I know it could just be friendly) I was wondering your opinion on how I can ask him out (or preferably get him to ask me out haha since I don't like asking guys out) He is British and here on a working holiday so that's what I've talked to him about. Should I just keep going there and being friendly and hope that he asks me out or should I say something First you need to make sure he's single and not seeing or with someone else. So you say this to him next time" Hey how you today?, You I am fine thanks for asking", now you again ask him "So any cool plans with your exclusive plans with girl friend, your seeing this weekend?" You need to ask him before you even suggest anything else. If he comes back and tells you he's not dating anyone now? Then you say "are you free this weekend would you like to take me out for coffee, tea, drink (if you drink) ice cream, or a movie or dancing...(you can fill in the blanks) But you get my thinking here. This is the only way to do it. This is the only way you know where you stand with him. Good luck and please report back on what he replies back in his response?
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