Jedimindtricks Posted March 7, 2017 Posted March 7, 2017 I recently found a box of condoms in my boyfriends car. We do not use. there were 24 but 4 missing. He left his car at my house while on business trip. So I went in his car and opened glovebox. I have not said anything yet.
MidwestUSA Posted March 7, 2017 Posted March 7, 2017 Just because you and him don't use them doesn't mean he hasn't used them with others before. What's the issue? Did you check the expiration date?
Simple Logic Posted March 7, 2017 Posted March 7, 2017 I would be suspicious he is buying prostitutes.
anzhoulau Posted March 7, 2017 Posted March 7, 2017 Just ask him directly, you just get more and more frustrated guessing. 2
Author Jedimindtricks Posted March 7, 2017 Author Posted March 7, 2017 in the past he has used escorts
JamesM Posted March 7, 2017 Posted March 7, 2017 His reply probably will be that they are from before you when he visited escorts. Would you believe him? Do you think he quit? Do you think he did or may start again?
dumbass2 Posted March 7, 2017 Posted March 7, 2017 How has the realtionship been lately and has anything changed with how he acts around you? Would you have good reason to feel he might cheat? Has there been arguing? Him pulling away? Not wanting to have sex with you?
TheTraveler Posted March 7, 2017 Posted March 7, 2017 Did you check the expiration date? Yep, and run down to Walgreens and compare them to expiration dates on boxes there. You should be able to pull a timeframe of when they were bought. Just ask him directly, you just get more and more frustrated guessing. No, I would gather more intel first 2
Author Jedimindtricks Posted March 7, 2017 Author Posted March 7, 2017 he travels for work often, he used to have an Instagram page full of hot woman over 500...he followed...since has deleted...we don't fight...he is not one to be too emotional...our sex life is not bad...but he is not affectionate like me...and he has not been that interested...if i touch him he would not get the hint unless he starts...he said his libido may be low...when we first started seeing each other in Feb 2016 ..went on one date...and text etc..then traveled for business..and vacation...he slept with escort in Brazil...and later i found out...he asked to be exclusive in March after this trip....i did not know about it until later...and then we dated...and in Aug we went on vacation...and i was having doubts or sixth sense so i looked in his phone and found lots of Instagram messages to girls and correspondence to ex gf and the escort...the escort was also a transgender girl..had full operation...
angel.eyes Posted March 7, 2017 Posted March 7, 2017 Figure out what your deal breakers are. For me, everything you mentioned would be a deal breaker, starting with the prostitute in Brazil. Throw in the T-girl, and I would have been long gone. What exactly does exclusivity mean to you? To him? Is this what you envisioned when you agreed to be exclusive? 4
kidm Posted March 7, 2017 Posted March 7, 2017 Why are you having unprotected sex especially with a guy who sleeps with prostitutes? I wouldn't be surprised if he is still sleeping with other women 6
Tressugar Posted March 7, 2017 Posted March 7, 2017 Yeap, I would use those same box of condoms with him and protect yourself Gurlie! Get tested. 2
JamesM Posted March 7, 2017 Posted March 7, 2017 he travels for work often, A recipe for disaster. he used to have an Instagram page full of hot woman over 500...he followed...since has deleted.. An ego thing. Another problem. .we don't fight...he is not one to be too emotional...our sex life is not bad...but he is not affectionate like me...and he has not been that interested...if i touch him he would not get the hint unless he starts...he said his libido may be low.. And he visited escorts? Doubtful. It doesn't matter if it is you or another woman, my guess is that he likes variety in sex. .when we first started seeing each other in Feb 2016 ..went on one date...and text etc..then traveled for business..and vacation...he slept with escort in Brazil...and later i found out.. Was this allegedly his first? I doubt it was. A guy who goes on business trips and has money will schedule visits with escorts. It adds excitement. and in Aug we went on vacation...and i was having doubts or sixth sense so i looked in his phone and found lots of Instagram messages to girls and correspondence to ex gf and the escort...the escort was also a transgender girl..had full operation... Did he actually visit the tranny? He really does like variety. I would like to say he did this in the past, but I think he is probably still doing it. It may not be often, but IMO he has not given it up as it can be addicting to some guys to be able to have sex with so many different types of women. It is a secret life and that adds to the thrill. 1
Gaeta Posted March 7, 2017 Posted March 7, 2017 he travels for work often, he used to have an Instagram page full of hot woman over 500...he followed...since has deleted...we don't fight...he is not one to be too emotional...our sex life is not bad...but he is not affectionate like me...and he has not been that interested...if i touch him he would not get the hint unless he starts...he said his libido may be low...when we first started seeing each other in Feb 2016 ..went on one date...and text etc..then traveled for business..and vacation...he slept with escort in Brazil...and later i found out...he asked to be exclusive in March after this trip....i did not know about it until later...and then we dated...and in Aug we went on vacation...and i was having doubts or sixth sense so i looked in his phone and found lots of Instagram messages to girls and correspondence to ex gf and the escort...the escort was also a transgender girl..had full operation... That's exactly how I found out my ex was cheating left and right on me. We were looking for insurance papers, he himself told me to look in his car and I found condoms. He invented all types of excuses and never admitted of cheating. From there proof of his cheating started piling up. Like you my ex had lost interest in me in the bedroom and our sex life had always been about raw-sex, never about connecting. I have learn later he was addicted to sex and funny but the first symptoms of sex addiction is lost of interest in their partner. Your boyfriend has an addiction that he is keeping a secret from you. 1
goldway90 Posted March 7, 2017 Posted March 7, 2017 when we first started seeing each other in Feb 2016 ..went on one date...and text etc..then traveled for business..and vacation...he slept with escort in Brazil Old habits die hard, looks like your bf is still doing it. 1
Redhead14 Posted March 7, 2017 Posted March 7, 2017 I recently found a box of condoms in my boyfriends car. We do not use. there were 24 but 4 missing. He left his car at my house while on business trip. So I went in his car and opened glovebox. I have not said anything yet. I would simply take note of how many are missing now. At some point, when you have an opportunity, check the box again to see if any more are missing. Then you raise the issue. Unless, of course, something else raises your suspicion. So I went in his car and opened glovebox -- To me, this suggests that you are already suspicious. 1
coolheadal Posted March 7, 2017 Posted March 7, 2017 I recently found a box of condoms in my boyfriends car. We do not use. there were 24 but 4 missing. He left his car at my house while on business trip. So I went in his car and opened glovebox. I have not said anything yet. You have your answer! Now confront him on this for the truth will set you free!
Author Jedimindtricks Posted March 7, 2017 Author Posted March 7, 2017 i also think in his past it was easier to have sex with escorts so there is no emotional ties..etc..
JamesM Posted March 7, 2017 Posted March 7, 2017 I would simply take note of how many are missing now. At some point, when you have an opportunity, check the box again to see if any more are missing. Then you raise the issue. Unless, of course, something else raises your suspicion. So I went in his car and opened glovebox -- To me, this suggests that you are already suspicious. Agree. Forgot to ask. WHY did you go into his glovebox?
Author Jedimindtricks Posted March 7, 2017 Author Posted March 7, 2017 he went on trip and left his car at my house and i had a sixth sense..so i just went in and thats first place i opened and saw open box with 4 missing..no good reason to go in his car...and his desk at home had four condoms in it about 4 weeks ago and now gone... he always says his past is his past... 1
Gaeta Posted March 7, 2017 Posted March 7, 2017 he went on trip and left his car at my house and i had a sixth sense..so i just went in and thats first place i opened and saw open box with 4 missing..no good reason to go in his car...and his desk at home had four condoms in it about 4 weeks ago and now gone... he always says his past is his past... What made you look? I don't believe you did that with no reasons.
goldway90 Posted March 7, 2017 Posted March 7, 2017 he went on trip and left his car at my house and i had a sixth sense..so i just went in and thats first place i opened and saw open box with 4 missing..no good reason to go in his car...and his desk at home had four condoms in it about 4 weeks ago and now gone... he always says his past is his past... You didn't have a sixth sense or anything, you simply don't trust him because he slept with an escort in Brazil when you started dating. If i had a box of condoms i intend to use them.You two don't use protection and there's 4 condoms missing, i mean it should be obvious by now that this guy is shady. 2
Author Jedimindtricks Posted March 7, 2017 Author Posted March 7, 2017 yes the March event makes me question him...and many other things. 1
Titanll Posted March 7, 2017 Posted March 7, 2017 Does he work as a clown...could be making balloon animals or something... 4
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