kirby96 Posted March 6, 2017 Posted March 6, 2017 I go out on a limb, messaging a guy on Facebook just being friendly, and i get pooped (can't curse on this site) on (he doesnt reply). I understand 100% that he owes me nothing and I accept that but i swear, whenever I do ballsy things like this (WHICH I NEVER DO), It never ends in my favor. We have mutual friends, we just have never actually met. I'm sure in a week I won't care about this, but for the time being, this really gets me down. Like thats so pathetic but it happens? Does this stuff happen to you guys?
ReformedPUA Posted March 6, 2017 Posted March 6, 2017 (edited) If a random woman whom I never met just messaged me on FB I'd likely not reply either, unless there was something about her that caught my eye. Don't go messaging random people like that OP, it's just weird. Edited March 6, 2017 by ReformedPUA 4
Tressugar Posted March 6, 2017 Posted March 6, 2017 Did you wait long enough to see if he won't reply? Some ppl keep schedules ya know. =)
coolheadal Posted March 6, 2017 Posted March 6, 2017 I go out on a limb, messaging a guy on Facebook just being friendly, and i get pooped (can't curse on this site) on (he doesnt reply). I understand 100% that he owes me nothing and I accept that but i swear, whenever I do ballsy things like this (WHICH I NEVER DO), It never ends in my favor. We have mutual friends, we just have never actually met. I'm sure in a week I won't care about this, but for the time being, this really gets me down. Like thats so pathetic but it happens? Does this stuff happen to you guys? FB all sorts of strange behavior goes on. I see it with the women who contact me as well. They can take as as long as they want to return your message. Don't sit around waiting on the replay back to you either. Go out and have fun. When it comes in you can take as along to reply back to it too.
bluefeather Posted March 6, 2017 Posted March 6, 2017 We have mutual friends, we just have never actually met. So are you even friends with him on fb? Because if you message someone without being friends, not everyone sees those messages. They get filtered.
basil67 Posted March 6, 2017 Posted March 6, 2017 A cousin who wasn't a friend messaged me on FB. I found her message about 8 months later. That said, I never accept conversations or friend requests from friends of friends unless we've been talking on a thread and getting on well. Basically, if a name pops up and I don't know who they are, I don't engage.
act00 Posted March 6, 2017 Posted March 6, 2017 Are you fishing for men on your friends' friend lists? Do you have any interaction with them at all on the board? It's seems kind of strange to me that some person you don't know and have never met will message you out of the blue. What is the common connection you have with this person that you're Facebooking them? I can't say I would put a lot of effort into conversing. I'm not on FB to date. 1
Larryville Posted March 6, 2017 Posted March 6, 2017 If a random woman whom I never met just messaged me on FB I'd likely not reply either That is kinda stalkerish if you ask me. WTF!? People actually do that, to random strangers?
CloudyHead Posted March 6, 2017 Posted March 6, 2017 I just found out recently that people DO use Facebook as a dating site! I never knew! Apparently, people do search friends' lists looking for single people and asking them out on dates.
OnlyHonesty Posted March 6, 2017 Posted March 6, 2017 You said you never do things like this but then ask why it always happens to you...
smackie9 Posted March 6, 2017 Posted March 6, 2017 Sorry to say this but with guys, well and girls too....if you are not hot, you get no results. Guys are visual creatures, they like seeing someone pretty....you probably need to amp up your game. It's a competitive world out there.
TheTraveler Posted March 6, 2017 Posted March 6, 2017 I go out on a limb, messaging a guy on Facebook just being friendly, and i get pooped (can't curse on this site) on (he doesnt reply). I understand 100% that he owes me nothing and I accept that but i swear, whenever I do ballsy things like this (WHICH I NEVER DO), It never ends in my favor. We have mutual friends, we just have never actually met. I'm sure in a week I won't care about this, but for the time being, this really gets me down. Like thats so pathetic but it happens? Does this stuff happen to you guys? Your message could have ended up in the other inbox if you're not friends with them on facebook. If you don't check it regularly you will never see it. Also, hate to say it, but if you're not good looking you might not get a response.
VeveCakes Posted March 6, 2017 Posted March 6, 2017 Sorry to say this but with guys, well and girls too....if you are not hot, you get no results. Guys are visual creatures, they like seeing someone pretty....you probably need to amp up your game. It's a competitive world out there. :lmao: I'm dying because this is so harsh but so true. Love it 1
d0nnivain Posted March 6, 2017 Posted March 6, 2017 It repeatedly happens because you repeatedly climb out onto the wrong limb. Some people don't like hearing from friends of friends on social media. Going forward restrict your bravado to in person scenarios.
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