mushroomlol Posted March 5, 2017 Posted March 5, 2017 I started seeing this guy about a month ago. So far only seen each other 3 times, 2 of them were really casual tea/coffee conversations. I like him and feel comfortable around him, yet I want to know him more to decide if I really have feelings for him. First I don't know if he feels the same way and that makes me a little frustrated. Also I found myself comparing him to my ex most of the time. My ex shares a lot of same interests with me and is more of an outgoing, energetic type. And this guy seems more mature and calm, which is why I feel comfortable around him. I think I will just go with the flow to see how things go. I have little dating experience so sometimes I found myself fall for someone not just because of that person but the reason that there's someone by my side. Right now I just want some advice to stop me comparing my dates to ex.
coolheadal Posted March 5, 2017 Posted March 5, 2017 This is not a good sign to compare anyone your seeking to your ex or so. What traits are you seeing can you explain more thanks in advance?
smackie9 Posted March 5, 2017 Posted March 5, 2017 (edited) It's not you comparing him to your ex, it's you comparing your preference of what you like in a partner. If you really want to know if this guy really fits the bill, you need to have more interesting energetic type dates, like go do indoor rock climbing or go sightseeing/explore a new area. Then you can see how he reacts when he is involved with activities with you. Edited March 5, 2017 by smackie9 1
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