mar96 Posted March 5, 2017 Posted March 5, 2017 I'm starting college real soon and I've read that its different than being at a university because its not as much as a social place, as people are there to take classes and leave. You are only there for a brief time. I'm going to my local community college because I don't have the grades and stuff to get into a university. So I will only be there for like two years. How do you get a girlfriend in community college?
coolheadal Posted March 5, 2017 Posted March 5, 2017 Wow really.. I had no problems meeting women there. I had group of only girls and one guy which was me. LOL I didn't want any other guy in our group. Library is a good place to start and look who's in your classes. Get a feel of them. This is what you say to a women your interested in. Weekend As her so your boyfriend and you have plans for the weekend? This way you can find out if she's seeing anyone out.. Good way to break the ice. Or Parking lot Wow when last did your boyfriend wash your car? Movie your interested in seeing Have you seen the latest movie with your boyfriend yet? You can say the movie name? Track 'n' Field But even on the track n field I met many women. I never seem to have that issue. Is what to say to them back then, but I figured just be myself. Since I was good with the computers I could always say, hey I am good with the computer I can help you with programming if you need help, but if your boyfriend wouldn't mine me helping out? Again another way to learn if she dating anyone without asking her. Never want to ask her the question directly, makes you look weak if you do. 2
Tressugar Posted March 5, 2017 Posted March 5, 2017 Community college is the smartest way to start off your educational career. Go there to learn not mack on the girls. Hit the clubs for that. 1
basil67 Posted March 5, 2017 Posted March 5, 2017 Your education should be your primary concern in Community College. But when you are surrounded by so many young people, you will meet many who you will and won't want as friends. Start with just meeting people and being comfortable talking with them. Getting a girlfriend will be easier once you've gotten the hang of making new friends. 2
LookAtThisPOst Posted March 5, 2017 Posted March 5, 2017 I'm starting college real soon and I've read that its different than being at a university because its not as much as a social place, as people are there to take classes and leave. You are only there for a brief time. I'm going to my local community college because I don't have the grades and stuff to get into a university. So I will only be there for like two years. How do you get a girlfriend in community college? I had that same problem. The problem with the community college I went to, most women were still dating their high school boyfriends. Socially, there wasn't much going on because most classes ended at around noon time and it was virtual ghost town when you walked around on campus around that time. I'd see an occasional cute girl sitting, back propped up against the wall, try to chat her up....boyfriend. Or I'd explore the campus library for a woman sitting by herself, ask them what they were studying, but they'd be short or curt with you. Community college was never a hoppin' social venue. I recall one time after a class around the holidays, asked if some of them wanted to group up and go explore the corn maze (thanksgiving holidays), a lot of blank stares, "ummmms" and some didn't even know what a corn maze was. lol That's another thing, too...community colleges = married people with families to get back home to. Wait until you hit the University, then you'll be swimming in dating opportunities. 1
smackie9 Posted March 5, 2017 Posted March 5, 2017 easy.....I met my ex in the cafeteria. We made eye contact and he went up to me and said hi. 1
preraph Posted March 5, 2017 Posted March 5, 2017 The better question is how do you NOT meet girls when you go to community college. You be open and friendly and say hi to people, and not just the ones you want to sleep with, but men and women. Just be open and outgoing and friendly and people will see you are friendly and be comfortable with you talking to them. 1
palmsand Posted March 5, 2017 Posted March 5, 2017 It depends on what you're studying. In my field, computer science, women are few and far between. I'm not the type to just walk up to strangers on campus, so only meeting people in my classes. Subjects like film or sociology are a different story.
Author mar96 Posted March 5, 2017 Author Posted March 5, 2017 It depends on what you're studying. In my field, computer science, women are few and far between. I'm not the type to just walk up to strangers on campus, so only meeting people in my classes. Subjects like film or sociology are a different story. I'm studying biology or either aerospace engineering. Only In classes? Don't you have long lectures and stuff that hardly gives you a chance to talk?
Author mar96 Posted March 5, 2017 Author Posted March 5, 2017 easy.....I met my ex in the cafeteria. We made eye contact and he went up to me and said hi. Wow, lol I would guess the cafeteria is like the easiest place.
Author mar96 Posted March 5, 2017 Author Posted March 5, 2017 Community college is the smartest way to start off your educational career. Go there to learn not mack on the girls. Hit the clubs for that. I'm going to college for my career, which I hope will be an aerospace engineer or an astrobiologist. My focus is on my career. I'm not interested in going to clubs because I don't really have friends and its a competitive environment. 1
Tressugar Posted March 6, 2017 Posted March 6, 2017 It'll happen regardless of the venue OP. When it's meant to happen that's when and where it'll happen. Just remain open.
Author mar96 Posted March 6, 2017 Author Posted March 6, 2017 It'll happen regardless of the venue OP. When it's meant to happen that's when and where it'll happen. Just remain open. But girls don't approach guys, and as a guy, I have to take action, especially because I'm not good looking. If I just wait for things to happen, it will never happen.
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