(Lesbian Couple) Am I overreacting Or is My wife Choosing Her sister over me?

[Eramirez87]

So My wife and I have Been Married for 3 years already, we have an awesome relationship, hardly ever argue but when we do it's over petty things. A lot of our arguments have been because of her sister and what pisses me off is that I always end up being the bad person. Every time her sister wants to come hang out with her I'm never included she always just wants sister time and that's completely understandable but it gets old! My sister in law recently got in relationships and messaged my wife that she wanted sister time then the next day she asked her if it was Of if her boyfriend hung out with them!? Like WTF really never was I included in the conversation, my wife isn't ridding solo any more she has me I just don't feel like that right. So she ended up coming over alone and going to the movies to watch a movie together they come back to my house and I'm cooped Alone while she's still spending solo time with her sister 3 hours pass by and I'm still alone I in the room like an idiot so I get dressed get in my truck go grab a beer drink it and then come back home, by that time she was gone already and my wife was pissed I had left. The point to this is I need some advice on weather I'm overreacting or is my sister lo law just being a B#%*" On top of the fact that she's always trying to always invite her to do things alone I feel like my wife should have stepped up and told her something about including me but she never has she just go with the flow, and me on the other hand I won't do anything without my wife I put her first before anything or anyone and I feel like my wife doesn't.

[somanymistakes]

I think it's okay for your wife and her sister to hang out without you sometimes, especially if they have interests that you don't share, but if it's ALL THE TIME, or if they're crowding you out of your own house, that's an issue.

 

If her sister comes over to the shared home it is basic politeness for you to be included in what's going on, or at least invited to take part in it even if you don't actually want to hang out with them.