Grey40 Posted March 3, 2017 Posted March 3, 2017 Met a girl on a dating app. Hit it off, gave me her number. Called her a few days later (which was today). She picked up and I asked her out for tomorrow night told her the plan to go to a winery etc. we set a time id pick her up she said sure. Then she says, "I have to go run some errands can I text you?" I said yeah sure. She hasn't texted in like 3 hours, never gave me her address either to pick her up. She's been online and active on the app so I know she's not busy
GoldSparkz Posted March 3, 2017 Posted March 3, 2017 This is one of the problems with OLD...she is obviously multi dating and the fact that it took you a few days to call after she gave you her number, could mean that someone else caught her attention in the meantime. It's still early days, so I wouldn't give up hope yet.
TheTraveler Posted March 3, 2017 Posted March 3, 2017 Met a girl on a dating app. Hit it off, gave me her number. Called her a few days later (which was today). She picked up and I asked her out for tomorrow night told her the plan to go to a winery etc. we set a time id pick her up she said sure. Then she says, "I have to go run some errands can I text you?" I said yeah sure. She hasn't texted in like 3 hours, never gave me her address either to pick her up. She's been online and active on the app so I know she's not busy Did you talk via text before finally calling? Almost all women do not want to picked up for the 1st date via online dating. At the end of the day, you're a stranger. There are exceptions, but that's a different topic
GemmaUK Posted March 3, 2017 Posted March 3, 2017 I'm not sure why it took you 3 days to call her after getting her number online - this would probably signify low interest on your behalf. 3 Hours isn't a long time. If you have a plan and she is interested then she'll likely text you a few hours prior to meeting. If she isn't interested she probably won't or she wil just get in touch to cancel. Picking her up on a first meet is not a good idea for reasons of personal safety. If she does contact you then arrange to meet at the venue. 2
Gaeta Posted March 3, 2017 Posted March 3, 2017 Why did you wait a few days to call her? How old is this one? 22-23 yo are not interested in winery. I know you don't beleive me but start pic9king women your age. Dating app? At 30 it's time to pick a good dating site not an app.
SevenCity Posted March 3, 2017 Posted March 3, 2017 Why did you wait a few days to call her? How old is this one? 22-23 yo are not interested in winery. I know you don't beleive me but start pic9king women your age. Dating app? At 30 it's time to pick a good dating site not an app. If you haven't used OLD in a while you are likely unaware that most sites have apps. Also, it doesn't matter which you use - all yield the same results.
Gaeta Posted March 3, 2017 Posted March 3, 2017 If you haven't used OLD in a while you are likely unaware that most sites have apps. Also, it doesn't matter which you use - all yield the same results. People using the expression dating app usually mean Tinder and similar app. And no, they do not all yield the same result. You'll meet more serious people on a dating site where you need to create a profile and put some efforts into it. I have not seen on here any solid relationship coming out of Tinder and such. I am very familiar with dating sites and their app. I spend close to 4 years on them till last year. I tried them all.
SevenCity Posted March 3, 2017 Posted March 3, 2017 People using the expression dating app usually mean Tinder and similar app. And no, they do not all yield the same result. You'll meet more serious people on a dating site where you need to create a profile and put some efforts into it. I have not seen on here any solid relationship coming out of Tinder and such. I am very familiar with dating sites and their app. I spend close to 4 years on them till last year. I tried them all. App could be Bumble as well. I'm on that and eHarmony (which I also use the app). eH and bumble have been about even. There is no more seriousness or advantage to a pay site in my experience.
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