Ryza Posted March 2, 2017 Posted March 2, 2017 Hi all I am in a bit of a confusing situation with an ex girlfriend and Im not entirely sure on what to do. it has probably been 2 weeks now but my ex girlfriends friend contacted me saying that she is in a bad place again and that her self harm has started and that she has been speaking about me and how she messed up with me. I agreed with her friend that I would speak to her and see what was going on. While we were on a call during the first week, she was speaking to me about the memories me and her had shared and she even started crying when I spoke about them, one night she was just laying there and told me to get in bed so we could speak and lay together on the facetime call, I did and she basically showed her chest area to me, as she has had a skin condition on it, this has happened 2-3 times in 2 different calls, this was also during the period of time that she had a boyfriend but has since broken up with him, she then said she doesnt want a boyfriend and told me not to get any ideas even though she already knows I have feelings for her Also in one call she called me while not wearing any underwear and only starting putting on underwear when I was on the call and changed her shirt in front of me too. She will talk to me about her period still and talk about our memories we made together and etc. She will still be moody if I joke around and say Im getting tattoos and stretching my ears like she would in the relationship. I should mention this is the 5TH time she has messaged me since the break up. Any advice or guidance guys? Thank you
Been Posted March 2, 2017 Posted March 2, 2017 RUN. She's your EX. She chose to not be with you so let her be someone else's burden. She's messing with you because here you are talking to an ex about her problems and she knows you still like her. She's basically teasing you.
Ieris Posted March 2, 2017 Posted March 2, 2017 Just sounds desperate for attention and you're giving it to her.
d0nnivain Posted March 2, 2017 Posted March 2, 2017 If she is self harming she has major psychiatric problems that require intervention from a medical profession. You are her EX BF not her doctor. Do not confuse the two roles. Her behavior is attention seeking. She probably doesn't have feelings for you. Even if she does those feelings & some naughty sexy talk did not fix all the problems that caused your break up. Two weeks of being apart also did not address the fundamental reasons why your relationship failed. If you want to get back together & work together to address why you broke up, fine give that a shot but you can't get back with him because you think she's suicidal or she told you she wasn't wearing underwear.
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