MeadowFlower Posted March 2, 2017 Posted March 2, 2017 (edited) Can guys please give me their thoughts on this topic. What would it mean if a girl felt an exes eyes on them, or if she felt like he looked at her sometimes while she's not looking at him? It wouldn't necessarily mean anything, I know that, but any insights from a guys perspective? Edited March 2, 2017 by MeadowFlower
basil67 Posted March 2, 2017 Posted March 2, 2017 Can you give some context to this question? And who is the guy in this scenario?
Author MeadowFlower Posted March 2, 2017 Author Posted March 2, 2017 Can you give some context to this question? And who is the guy in this scenario? The context is at work, and the guy is the ex who works with the girl whom he dumped several months ago.
d0nnivain Posted March 2, 2017 Posted March 2, 2017 I'm a woman but just because your EX looks at you, doesn't mean anything. It might be remorse. It might be that you look nice or particularly awful that day. He might me thinking OMG why did I date that? He may have also been looking at the person standing near you. 2
Author MeadowFlower Posted March 2, 2017 Author Posted March 2, 2017 I'm a woman but just because your EX looks at you, doesn't mean anything. It might be remorse. It might be that you look nice or particularly awful that day. He might me thinking OMG why did I date that? He may have also been looking at the person standing near you. On more than one occasion?
dumbass2 Posted March 2, 2017 Posted March 2, 2017 Go up to him and ask him why he keeps looking at you because it makes you uncomfortable. No one on here can tell you what your ex is thinking. It's an exercise in futility. The best thing is to stop analyzing this and ignore. That's way better than bringing it up to him. If you notice him looking at you a lot, it must be because you are looking at him a lot, so you need to stop that. 1
Author MeadowFlower Posted March 2, 2017 Author Posted March 2, 2017 (edited) Go up to him and ask him why he keeps looking at you because it makes you uncomfortable. No one on here can tell you what your ex is thinking. It's an exercise in futility. The best thing is to stop analyzing this and ignore. That's way better than bringing it up to him. If you notice him looking at you a lot, it must be because you are looking at him a lot, so you need to stop that. I'm well aware of the futilities etc. And it's called peripheral vision, so one does not necessarily have to be directly looking at the other to notice. I would no way ask him, that is pathetic. Edited March 2, 2017 by MeadowFlower
d0nnivain Posted March 2, 2017 Posted March 2, 2017 Unless he says or does something more than look, it means nothing no matter how many times the EX looks at you. Asking him why he is doing this is less pathetic then wondering & not getting a straight answer. 1
Author MeadowFlower Posted March 2, 2017 Author Posted March 2, 2017 Unless he says or does something more than look, it means nothing no matter how many times the EX looks at you. Asking him why he is doing this is less pathetic then wondering & not getting a straight answer. Yea if it meant anything substantial he could make some sort of contact. Just wondering as you do .
goldway90 Posted March 2, 2017 Posted March 2, 2017 Well if i'm looking at a girl usually i'm checking her out but that's just me 1
Chilli Posted March 4, 2017 Posted March 4, 2017 But an ex is different. He could even be thanking thank God l'm not with her anymore.
MrWhite Posted March 10, 2017 Posted March 10, 2017 You can invent any answer. They know you and will look at you with unknown thoughts. Unless you talk to them, anything, everything, and nothing. Positive or negative.
jamili Posted March 10, 2017 Posted March 10, 2017 Definitely do not approach him and ask why he's looking at you, that's a bad idea. I think most likely since you have a history together he prob was looking at you and thinking about you in some way - whether negative or positive you dont know. As far as it being a sign of reconciliation, i would say no. My ex used to stare at me and look at me when i was moving out. I remember being on the phone with a utilities company, setting up service at my new place, and out of my peripherals i saw her hardcore just checking me out. I turned to look at her and she would look away and act like she wasnt looking, to hide it. But i know she was looking. But guess what. I still moved out of there a week later without any resistance from her, or any desire communicated to work things out. Nothing. So, while they might be thinking all sorts of **** in their head, it doesn't really mean anything important to you. Ignore it, and act like you dont care either way. He can stare all he wants but it isnt going to phase you. 1
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