cybink Posted July 25, 2005 Posted July 25, 2005 Just wondering has anyone ever sent a wrong text message (ie should have been sent to someone else) to your ex just to reinitiate contact. I know that sounds dumb, but that's what I feel like doing just so he'll ring me and say I think you should have sent this to someone else.
Numb Posted July 25, 2005 Posted July 25, 2005 Do yourself a favor and don't bother, its not gonna help anything at all if anything it will just make things worse for you. What will you do if he/she doesn't reply?? Keep doing it?? Let your EX stay an EX, there's no point talking to them.
Author cybink Posted July 25, 2005 Author Posted July 25, 2005 I Know I know, Thanks I just needed to hear it!
ReluctantRomeo Posted July 25, 2005 Posted July 25, 2005 How long has it been and what do you want to achieve? And who did the dumping? If it has been long enough for passions and tempers to have cooled and all you want is to say hi and find out how he's doing, then I don't think it's a problem to ring directly. Otherwise, you're skating on very thin ice.
LucreziaBorgia Posted July 25, 2005 Posted July 25, 2005 I pretty much made up some excuse to call mine (since at that time there were no such thing as 'text messages' ). I called, and I will never forget how icy he was. When I said his name, all he said was "what do you want." I told him my reason for calling, and he said something back that was pretty mean. Cold. Distant. Icy. He didn't even say goodbye. He just hung up. Yep, it was pretty stupid. Chances are, your b/f probably won't return your message or when he does it will be a chilly one (depending, of course on how your breakup went). In some ways that might be a good thing for you. It will hurt you, trust me - but at the same time it will allow a door to shut that should have been shut before, but had been left open a wee crack.
Author cybink Posted July 25, 2005 Author Posted July 25, 2005 It's been a week since I spoke to him, and I guess it was a mutual dumping. We work together and are both involved with other people (I Know don't rat on me, I feel bad enough already) but we had a fling, I knew it couldn't last and so did he, anyway he said he was leaving work in the next 2 weeks, I got depressed and quit the very next day, on an impulse. I just want to ring and ask him if he's still leaving, because my boss has given me 3 months to have a rest and decide whether I want to return - and I can't return if he's still there. No No I'm not going to contact him yet, I have been so strong all week. Have you guys ever considered contacting a psychic? I have never contacted one ever before, being the huge sceptic I am and would scoff at anyone who told me they did, and guess what last week I did contact one, she said to back off and he will come back into my life when he's had time to think things over. Now she's given me hope, which is good and bad at the same time, if you know what I mean.
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