tp1998 Posted March 1, 2017 Posted March 1, 2017 Hi... So it's better to tell the truth. I'm a girl im 18 years old and i like girls.. 2 years ago i fell in love... with a girl, she was 3 years younger... yes probably it sounds funny to u and you will say that you can't love someone when you are so young but that's not true... i had serious relationship before and i can't compare this two relationship because this one was totally different... That will sound also funny to you but we were (we still are) both a member of the national team so we have spent a lot of time together... all summer and also during the year... she came also to my house and i came to her house i mean it was really beautiful... you just can't imaine how nice it was.... hah... i love her soooo much i cant tell u... i would really do anything for her you know... and yeah we "broke up" 7 days ago.... first she said that she only needs a break but 2 days after she said that she just doesnt have feeling for me anymore and that she can't be with me but that she still loves me very much as a friend and that im the most amazing and important person to her... but on thursday (16.2.2017) we went out... and yrah we both cried a lot and she said that she just needs a break... and i said ok.. but in the evening around 9pm she sent me a message that she cant live without me that she cant imagine life without me and that she still wants me and she doesnt want to end this relationship... im very confused ... snd yeah her grandma is very sick at the moment and she is also very sad about that... i dont know what to do... i dont wanna lose her... and she also said that she doesnt want anyone else to date ... please help me... i will see her this Saturday and Sunday because we have a match... Im not ready to lose her im really not... i've been crying for 14 days now... but i think she doesnt care... i want ti get her back but i dont know where to start... what should i do that she will have this feelings again? because she really loved me, i know that, she was crazy about me Please don't judge me I'm really really sad thanks for ur help and sorry my english is not so good.
coolheadal Posted March 1, 2017 Posted March 1, 2017 Just give her time, and just be there for her if her grand is sick. Show her you care more than ever. Not much you can do young love matters no one can ever say otherwise until they too experience it in all shape and genders. Remember your heart tells you what to do follow your heart always. Think before you act, show the love through your eyes/tears and smile. Never say anything negative, always be the positive side in this.. 1
Author tp1998 Posted March 1, 2017 Author Posted March 1, 2017 she just said that she doesnt feel the same anymore...
d0nnivain Posted March 1, 2017 Posted March 1, 2017 Nobody is judging you. Young love is real. It might not be lasting but it is real & when a relationship ends, it hurts. I understand you don't want to lose her but it's not your call. It's nothing you did or didn't do. It's just one of those things. Very few relationships survive the transition out of HS. She has a lot on her plate right now, including a sick grandmother. She said she lost feelings for you. That happens. She is growing & changing. So are you. Her journey is taking her away from you. You can only accept that. Don't beg. Don't plead. Do grieve in private. Surround yourself with supportive loving people, friends & family. In time the acute pain will dissipate but for now in the short run it's going to hurt. It's part of the healing process. You have to see her at your match but other than that, keep all contact to an absolute minimum.
coolheadal Posted March 1, 2017 Posted March 1, 2017 she just said that she doesnt feel the same anymore... That's an excuse on her by saying that to you. She might not be so interested as she has lead you on in the first place.
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