LitTunnel Posted March 2, 2017 Posted March 2, 2017 Yes, I understand and agree the whole situation is wrong. I made a mistake I am beyond regretful of, but he was willing to move past this until someone said we kissed. That's what made him say he no longer wanted to be with me, which is the one thing I can't admit or deny because I genuinely don't know. My friends all still say it didn't happen and tell me not to let this girl convince me we kissed, but the kids gf claims it did happen which is weird to me because she is still with him like nothing happened. I was planning on giving him space for a bit and eventually trying to reach out. Just not sure what to say at this point to prove myself and convince him to give me a chance and scared he's just not going to answer AnnMarg, for Pete sake, give him some space. Let this situation die down a bit. He's still worked up. Maybe 1 week or 2. This way it gives both of you time to rethink things, especially you because guess what, even if he did come back with you he's going to doubt your sincerity and loyalty for a long time so you better be on your best behavior from here on out otherwise it's game over.
kevinjinha Posted March 2, 2017 Posted March 2, 2017 I am actually the exact opposite of that, so thank you for making assumptions when you don't know me and being an *******. I am early 20s and am VERY responsible even more so than him. I work, take care of myself, and rarely go out and drink. I never even flirt with anyone because I care solely about him and my life with him. I made a MISTAKE by drinking too much and need a way to fix it not be torn apart by people I don't know. When people use alcohol as an excuse to pardon their actions it makes me sick. I always get blacked out drunk and I even have taken ecstasy, not once did I feel the need to kiss someone else. It is your inner conscience that made you do that, so in the end, you still had a choice, and you did it.
Author AnnMarg Posted March 2, 2017 Author Posted March 2, 2017 Thanks LitTunnel I'll try that. It's already been close to a week and I'm still blocked just nervous he won't even talk to me again. I would never forgive myself. And I understand you still choose your actions but I'm still not sure it even happened because drunk or not I have never been that type of girl or ever had any desire for someone other than my guy which is why I am so upset and unsure what to do. As I said if it did happen it is VERY out of character for me and I am incredibly upset I put myself in this situation. Also not sure why I would even do something like that because I was beyond happy in my relationship. Him not talking to me is actually tearing me apart.
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