katty Posted July 25, 2005 Posted July 25, 2005 I am having a really bad day. I can't seem to get him out of my head today. I hate myself for having these thoughts. I know that hearing from him only makes me feel worse, but then here I sit and hope that he calls. I can't think of anything right now in my life that seems to be going right. I know I am having a pity party and I apologize. I just keep trying to have a positive outlook but it is hard sometimes. Thanks for letting me vent.
DesertDweller Posted July 25, 2005 Posted July 25, 2005 Why don't you force yourself to leave the house tomorrow? Give yourself something to look forward to. I would suggest reading a book on how to overcome a lost love. It seems to help. Remember, the mind can hold only one thought at a time. So, when you think of him, replace that thought with somethig pleasant. Good luck.
katty Posted July 25, 2005 Posted July 25, 2005 Thanks for the advice, I had a busy day today, I had a lot of traveling to do with my job so I wasn't stuck in the office. I think I have read every lost love book ever written. Thanks
MWC_LifeBeginsAt40 Posted July 26, 2005 Posted July 26, 2005 I think there's a book out there for everyone. Mine is "he's just not that into you" and already I think my fellow LS'rs are going to be sick of me mentioning it. I cried all the way to the city on Sunday (45 min drive) and thought My God I need to do something to get over this. So I bought the book, went to an outdoor patio and had margueritas. This weekend I'm going to go to the beach with a really good smut novel (oxymoron?)! ALONE. And I'm not even gonna pout if I don't get hit on. No more pity parties for me! Take control of your happiness and quit waiting around for the phone to ring. Quit making excuses as to why he hasn't called. Yes, he should have called but he didn't and he blew it. Move on. Good Luck and stay strong.
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