TheTraveler Posted March 2, 2017 Posted March 2, 2017 He told me the number as a "proof" of him not being a f***boy. Like "see, I didn't have all that many" What was his number? And it's ****boi, not ****boy:bunny:
Author Lorenza Posted March 2, 2017 Author Posted March 2, 2017 What was his number? And it's ****boi, not ****boy:bunny: My bad, it's f***boi then It was 25. I suppose it's not much by today's standards and maybe he doesn't count as f***boi at all. But for me it's a lot. And he was 27 y o like me. Id prefer someone who had several longer relationships by this point and less changeable sex partners. That's just my preference
preraph Posted March 2, 2017 Posted March 2, 2017 He told me the number as a "proof" of him not being a f***boy. Like "see, I didn't have all that many" Hahaha! Well, another reason why I say not to tell numbers. Most people totally lie one way or the other, up or down, anyway, so you never know. It is important to know how many and what length relationships. To me, that's the most important, but I'm not judgy about that either because my relationships were never clearcut like that and morphed from one thing to another.
Dis Posted March 2, 2017 Posted March 2, 2017 Hey Lorenza I'm back on OLD and I'm doing the same thing Anything that rubs me the wrong way or makes me question the guy...I'm out If he doesnt have a well written profile, calls me 'sexy', doesnt have a well written message to me, doesnt have more than one pic, cant carry on a convo, doesnt ask about me... etc etc...I'm gone I do think we need to have an open mind to a certain degree but I think we've been through so much...we just know better at this point
Author Lorenza Posted March 3, 2017 Author Posted March 3, 2017 Hey Lorenza I'm back on OLD and I'm doing the same thing Anything that rubs me the wrong way or makes me question the guy...I'm out If he doesnt have a well written profile, calls me 'sexy', doesnt have a well written message to me, doesnt have more than one pic, cant carry on a convo, doesnt ask about me... etc etc...I'm gone I do think we need to have an open mind to a certain degree but I think we've been through so much...we just know better at this point Isn't OLD annoying, ugh I've been on in it for the last 3 months but there's just too much to hate. I used to be more patient and forgiving in the past, but now I'm peevish and most men irk me! Yes an open mind is necessary but it starts too feel like I can't open my mind wide enough. It made me delete all the accounts on one short temper tantrum today Don't you wish it was possible to meet people without it? I even wish a thing like wedding mart still existed haha
Author Lorenza Posted March 3, 2017 Author Posted March 3, 2017 Oh by the way - I nearly forgot the joys of being single (due to rushing from one RL straight to another). Just bawled my eyes out due to ending the most amazing serie of books. There's literally not much else in life to cry about except for books and touching videos. So I guess I have the right to be overly selective when this is at stake When I find someone new I want the reasons I mentioned above to remain my only reasons to cry 1
Mkn1010 Posted March 3, 2017 Posted March 3, 2017 I love your above post and completely agree! If you find a great guy, please do report back, I could use a hopeful story 1
Author Lorenza Posted March 3, 2017 Author Posted March 3, 2017 Will gladly report back if I ever find a rare treasure like that By the way, remembered another funny thing about the guy who didn't take no for an answer and nagged me into going on a date with him (he was also the one to shower me with attention and questions "to get to know me better). The same one I blocked instead of going out with him. I sent him a link to one of my performances. I said that it's gonna be a rock song but I accidentally copied a link to a video where I'm singing a ballad. He answered "Damn your voice really kicks ass, I like your energy". I thanked him but then I pressed on the link and realized that I sent him the wrong one. The song I was performing was neither kick ass nor energetic, but really calm and soft. So he didn't even bother listening, haha!
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