whatwhit Posted February 26, 2017 Posted February 26, 2017 Hi All, So I've been friends with this guy for almost 3 years. We first met on match.com hung out a few times but never turned into anything. He moved to Puerto Rico about a year and a half ago, and we've kept in touch. He does come into town frequently due to his family being in the state I'm from, and we try to always meet up with each other. We making out everytime we see each other and are attracted to each other. My hungover brain haha decided to be brave, and I decided to ask him how come we've never attempted to date each other during this whole time we've known each other. The conversation below Him: mostly because I don't live in Houston and I travel a ton. It would be really hard. Me: basically you would be open to it if you were in Houston? Him: I definitely would, where did that come from? Me: no reason really it just randomly popped in my head and so I thought I'd ask. Hopefully I'm not making things weird Him: not awkward or weird at all just thought I'd ask So he will be here Friday and I believe we are having dinner. He mentioned to me how he may move back to my town in the future. And I'm open to the idea of seeing where things go. Anyone done distance? Do y'all think I'm beating a dead horse when it's dead by asking?
preraph Posted February 26, 2017 Posted February 26, 2017 You will have to get to know him, but what you now know is he isn't overly enthusiastic about dating someone in a different town than where he lives, so there's no reason to think he'd ever just uproot and move to be with you either. But get to know him a bit better and maybe if it's good enough, the subject will come up. Or you could go to puerto rico.
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