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Should I wait for fate or try online dating


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I'm considering online dating again. The last time I did it I slept with a guy. We're not in contact. The website that I want to go back on is the one I met him on and I don't want to run into him again.

 

If he sees my profile, he might think I'm this lonely desperate woman. It'll be awkward to see him if after I told him I'm looking for something different. Its a long story.

 

I know no guy will magically fall into my lap and I don't have a social life and i want to meet someone so this is the best way to do so. I'm busy with work and family so I don't get out. I'm 30 and I'm just feeling inadequate in the relationship/ love life department. I want something, someone.

 

I also have 1 child so my situation is different. I'm not sure if I should just wait to see if I run into a guy like if I should wait for fate or if I should just try to meet guys.

 

I know what I'm looking for physically, emotionally and mentally.

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If you know what you are looking for then you will not be wasting your time.

 

As for dip $%^&, who cares what he thinks....why you are on there is none of his business anyways.

 

Just a tip: people only worry and think about themselves. He isn't going to judge you if he sees your profile. He will probably think, oh there's that lady I had a date with while back. Did I sleep with her? I can't remember.....

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Sure, why not. It's a way to meet people, but I assure you it hasn't changed much from the last time you quit(I recently joined again). As for the guy, he's not concerned with you and you shouldn't be with him. Just do your thing.

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