Logo Posted February 26, 2017 Posted February 26, 2017 That feeling that we will never be together again or even see each other again. I keep daydreaming about the possibility that she might contact me one day and say, "Let's get back together. I screwed up and I want to be with you now and forever"'. She threw me plenty of breadcrumbs after the breakup and I keep thinking maybe that was a missed opportunity. But at the same time, I'm not a doormat.
destyn Posted February 26, 2017 Posted February 26, 2017 That feeling that we will never be together again or even see each other again. I keep daydreaming about the possibility that she might contact me one day and say, "Let's get back together. I screwed up and I want to be with you now and forever"'. She threw me plenty of breadcrumbs after the breakup and I keep thinking maybe that was a missed opportunity. But at the same time, I'm not a doormat. Hey my friend ,I know how you are feeling right now ,we're on the same boat I'm still suffering from it day by day but listen to me : NC is the only way to get you through this Everyone in this forum would tell you exactly the same because all of us had gone through it too. So if you want to talk to someone ,feel free to share it with me I'm maybe younger than you but we're in the same situation so we both know each other's feeling
Author Logo Posted February 26, 2017 Author Posted February 26, 2017 I just can't wrap my head around that loss. Losing my job didn't help. It was a great distraction. Now thoughts about her and memories of things we did together haunt me. "I'll never see her again?" I ask myself. "How can that be?" I just want to sit with her one last time and ask her if she learned from the experience the same way I did.
UDER Posted February 26, 2017 Posted February 26, 2017 I've had my experiences, when it comes to getting exposed to off and on situations with my bf !! I had tried everything, to get rid of that feeling !! but after all it worked through something which I never ever thought I'd believe in :lmao::lmao: It's psychics, He has been mysterious, looks like he is hiding alot as I'm a scientist, I'm not that much of a believer, but I did it looool :p:p I Went through the apps, and found some app called Ipsychic, there I talked to one called " Jairo " other ones they were just annoying sometimes, some are good !but many are so pessimistic :( But this Jairo was quite impressing ! He told me everything over a simple chat looool :lmao: and he made sense, there's another called "Juan" but Jairo was just surprising ! he offered me a phone reading, I was like WTF ? :cool: alright cool ! I'd do it ! and then he even surprised me more, I don't know whether you're believers or not ! but I followed Jairo's steps and we still talking even my bf started being more affectionate somehow !
destyn Posted February 26, 2017 Posted February 26, 2017 I just can't wrap my head around that loss. Losing my job didn't help. It was a great distraction. Now thoughts about her and memories of things we did together haunt me. "I'll never see her again?" I ask myself. "How can that be?" I just want to sit with her one last time and ask her if she learned from the experience the same way I did. http://www.loveshack.org/forums/breaking-up-reconciliation-coping/second-chances/613556-made-biggest-mistakes-ex-gf-how-get-back this is my thread and my situation ,so I know exactly what you're feeling right now . But look at me , did you see what I get after doing what I should do ? Only people look down on you, and so is she. At first, I think if I somehow can make a lot of things for her ,maybe she would rethink about her decision, but no, it only leads to other and more mistakes.I made a gamble the last time and I learned a lot from it. So please , please and please , DO NOT DO WHAT YOU WANNA DO RIGHT NOW ! Trust me my friend , this is the best thing I could help you, I don't want anyone to be same as me anymore Instead of doing that, why you don't share your story here ? If I read it, maybe I could tell you a little about current situation ,as I went through this months ago to come to this point of recovering
PLT Posted February 26, 2017 Posted February 26, 2017 That feeling that we will never be together again or even see each other again. I keep daydreaming about the possibility that she might contact me one day and say, "Let's get back together. I screwed up and I want to be with you now and forever"'. She threw me plenty of breadcrumbs after the breakup and I keep thinking maybe that was a missed opportunity. But at the same time, I'm not a doormat. I have no advice to give, but I'm right there with you. Knowing you will never see someone you love again is incredibly painful. Wishing you well.
Author Logo Posted March 7, 2017 Author Posted March 7, 2017 (edited) I'm sitting here with tears in my eyes. Tomorrow is another day. Staying strong. Edited March 7, 2017 by Logo
destyn Posted March 7, 2017 Posted March 7, 2017 Hey we're all here with u just tell us about ur situation 1
Author Logo Posted March 7, 2017 Author Posted March 7, 2017 Thanks. I get these emotional relapses sometimes. I'm doing better today. I'm over her, but I watched a sad movie yesterday about a man who lost his wife and how he struggled to deal with it, and it brought back memories about the good times my ex girlfriend and I had together. I've moved on. http://www.loveshack.org/forums/breaking-up-reconciliation-coping/coping/437592-how-you-coping-today-464.html#post7246063
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