loony Posted July 25, 2005 Posted July 25, 2005 Originally posted by alphamale I disagree, most of these dudes have very strong egos and good self esteem. Otherwise they could never do what they do...women are a comodity, not unlike gasoline or velveeta cheese. I disagree on this also, youre looking at it from a female POV. From a male POV we are playing the game and getting another notch in the bedpost. It is competition for us, something we are taught early on that we need to do. Which guy has best looking g/f, who has the fastest car? Who makes most money? Whos banged most females? And as far as insecurity goes, everyone has at least a few insecurities in their life. If you had no insecurities they you'd be.... GOD Their weakness is their desire to impress people. Is it just the amount of women they were able to sleep with that counts or also the perceived social value of the woman that they have managed to deceive? If she was not too bad, a rejection from her will sting. Many people like a challenge, it is human nature and not gender specific. And they don't really feel like losers, they just move on to the next conquest. It is the "nice guys" who feel like losers and sulk for 9 months if they don't get what they want. Sure, they move on, but it still stings.
J dub Posted July 25, 2005 Posted July 25, 2005 Originally posted by Dasani um your guy is not a challenge guy... if he was.. he would say "ok I'm taking you out the night before you leave- so we can get together and have a send off..." or "call me when you get back" and then he wont talk to you again until you do. yours, as it is now,asking if you'll miss him is the "nice" (read: pushover (read: walk all over)) guy. I guess I am blinded by the fact that he disguises it as a joke. He did it again today -- on friday he asked me to cal him sometime this weekend if I get some free time and we'll get a cappaccino. I didnt call, because I've had other stuff going on. Then today (monday) he asked if I missed him this weekend. Its difficult though because he has such a carefree attitude and tone in his voice that it doesnt SOUND needy to me????
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