hopeless93 Posted February 26, 2017 Posted February 26, 2017 So I'm 23 years old. I'm in med school in the US, I'm 5'9, in excellent physical shape from weight lifting. I've never gone on a date in my life, never had any experiences with women. I don't think women ever show any interest in me because in high school I got rejected to prom by 2 girls who were friends, and since then I stopped speaking to women romantically whatsoever because I lost all my confidence. The only people who ever notice me are gay people but I'm not gay. I feel so inadequate all the time. I'm beginning to think I'm just an incredibly ugly guy, who's going to become a doctor, earn lots of money, buy whatever he wants because he's got no one in his life, and die a virgin. I rarely go out.. I just study and spend weekends in the gym or playing video games because I just sit in a corner on my phone when I go out anyway. My parents are pretty wealthy people and pay all my bills, but are always out on business travel or on vacation and I live far from home, so I basically never see them. It's even worse because my mom is extremely attractive and I feel she is disappointed and thinks I'm a complete loser because I'm her only son and I've done so poorly with women. I've really got no one to talk to about this, and I don't think it's going to get better.
The_Dork_Lard Posted February 26, 2017 Posted February 26, 2017 I just sit in a corner on my phone when I go out You have the power to change this, and once you do, things will begin improving. 1
hercules22 Posted February 26, 2017 Posted February 26, 2017 just got say to yourself who cares if u get rejected again not every girl out there gonna accept you it is what is but someone will got keep trying till someone is willing to give you their time 1
GoldSparkz Posted February 26, 2017 Posted February 26, 2017 Just because you were rejected by two girls all those years ago, doesn't mean you should shut down and never speak to women again. I'm sorry to say, but its a tough world out there and rejection is a normal part of life. You're gonna get rejected by potential employers, fail exams every once in a while and deal with not getting the house you really want to buy. If you can't deal with rejection and failure, how do you expect to deal with the volatile nature of dating? In my opinion, you need to take risks and learn how to deal with rejection unless you're never going to get anywhere with women. You learn this through experience.
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