AX2017 Posted February 25, 2017 Posted February 25, 2017 So my ex (we've been broken up for over 4 months and have been in no contact for almost 2 months) she blocked me on skype at the start of our break up but then a month into NC she unblocks me on skype. (I notice she is back in my skype contact list) and so I remove her, during the late night of that evening I accept the contact request she left as "pending" to see if she blocked me once I removed her, and unsurprisingly she blocked me once I removed her (anger I assume?), seeing as I'm now blocked on skype I forget that I accepted the contact request she left as pending and notice a couple days ago she has unblocked me and has appeared once again in my contact list. I'm mainly curious if anything seeing as I've been making great progress recently without her and am not too fussed if she comes back or not. I'd just like to hear some opinions on why she would do this whole block/unblock routine considering skype is purely a method for contact, not looking at what I'm doing in my life. My ex always had a lot of pride and I'm sure she would not like to be the one who initiates contact - who knows what this means. Any ideas? Cheers!
raditz Posted February 25, 2017 Posted February 25, 2017 Well I have an opinion/comment. Just stop yourself for one second. Pretend that you are not you. Read the post you just posted. You are talking about detailed Skype settings that no body knotices or cares to knotices. Yet you know all these little details and how they are now and how one might change if she blocks you yada yada. Keeping no contact is good. But waiting for contact is worse. It's clearly eating you up. Delete Skype all together and deactivate Facebook and go off the grid. Heal. I don't use the word move on. Because you never really move on. Also don't start dating until you are ready. Nothing's worse than being with a new beautiful woman. And not seeing it because your hung on a evil ex. Oh the reason why I posted this is because i can tell your heart is still torn open. Good luck though. 1
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