AdamJones Posted December 16, 2016 Posted December 16, 2016 (edited) My girl ask me to take her shopping yesterday. I am always at her house and i always do what she ask when she needs help. my phone hs been messed up and calls dont always come in. So i was waiting on her to call back and she didnt, then an hr later she says fine i guess ur not coming and i was already ready to go when she gave me the word. instead of calling me back again she just got mad. I never ignore her call..EVER. I didnt want to call her because she might accuse me of rushing her. so seh gets mad at me whe i explain this to her.. what do i do. it wasnt my fault and she thinks she is right.. how do i get thru to this girl.. I do EVERYTHINtg she ask's me to. its unreal that she gets mad at this. when i ry to make my case she doesnt want to talk and that is bull****. its not fair Edited December 16, 2016 by AdamJones
ZayKayWill Posted December 16, 2016 Posted December 16, 2016 Just tell her what you told us about your phone not working? Your right she's being immature and isn't listening to you. And that's not fair to you.
Author AdamJones Posted December 16, 2016 Author Posted December 16, 2016 I did. She just got pissed off cause i kept explaining the situation. She wasnt willing to talk about it at all. when things dont go the way she wants them she is done. spoiled. I love this girl and I am changd my life for her. She is very smart and i dont get why she cant see that I dodnt nothing wrong or i was trying not to piss her off and everyone kisses her ass but their not in a relationship with her. BOTTOM LINE... i cant find a way to get thru to her subtly to get her to understand tings like this.. I appreciate the suggestion. it just didnt work.
ZayKayWill Posted December 16, 2016 Posted December 16, 2016 Generally speaking a lot of women (and men too) throw hissy fits when things don't always go their way. I can relate to you. I had a gf where if I did one thing that in her eyes was wrong she would just get angry and try to make me feel bad and that hella pissed me off. If she can't properly communicate with you, your relationship isn't going to go very far. I personally wouldn't be putting up with that if I were you. 1
Author AdamJones Posted December 16, 2016 Author Posted December 16, 2016 I was pissed off that she wasnt calling me back, which she could have called again or textd me. she only called once i mean shen u have plans with someone u put a little more effort into it. especailly doing a favor for you. i know i do. thing... whee this happens like tonight, there is a concert we have been planning to go to tonight, i think should i say " go to your concert and ill stay home, you hang with your friends" cause if i try to get into it with her she just gets pissed off and wont talk , yea im a broken record. or should i just leave it alone for now and go? and try to have a good time. i dunno if ill have a good time tho.. geez eh i dunno, i ignored her one time in a yr of dating and she flipped cause i wouldnt pick up the phone ha.
Author AdamJones Posted December 16, 2016 Author Posted December 16, 2016 Generally speaking a lot of women (and men too) throw hissy fits when things don't always go their way. I can relate to you. I had a gf where if I did one thing that in her eyes was wrong she would just get angry and try to make me feel bad and that hella pissed me off. If she can't properly communicate with you, your relationship isn't going to go very far. I personally wouldn't be putting up with that if I were you. bascially how should i handle it when yhou say.. "wouldnt put up with that" whats my action???
ZayKayWill Posted December 16, 2016 Posted December 16, 2016 bascially how should i handle it when yhou say.. "wouldnt put up with that" whats my action??? Tell her that it's not cool that she doesn't actually tell you what's bothering you like a mature adult but rather gets angry at you, starts pointing fingers and doesn't give you a chance to share your side of the story. I wouldn't go to the concert of that's what you wanna do. You gotta show to her that you're not gonna put up with her behavior. If you keep letting it slide you're gonna end up resenting her and blowing up on her eventually IMHO. Do whatever you want though. It's your relationship.
VeveCakes Posted December 16, 2016 Posted December 16, 2016 She sounds unappreciative and immature. The only way to open her eyes is to not tolerate the behavior. 2
spiderowl Posted December 16, 2016 Posted December 16, 2016 If you really don't make a habit of ignoring her phone calls, then it would be fair enough of you to calmly say you have a problem with your phone and if you she doesn't believe you that is up to her. I would add that you never ignore her calls. Then just leave it at that until she comes back to you. If you did this a lot, then she would be justified in being angry, but as you don't, then you need to stand your ground. She might dump you, but then who wants someone who is so aggressive and lacking in understanding?
Author AdamJones Posted February 24, 2017 Author Posted February 24, 2017 (edited) My girls cat got flea's all in her house. Her cat got flea's so ive let her stay at my place, drove to 40 minutes away FOR HER about everyday while she had been staying at my house for the last two weeks. I go out of my way to help her. There is always something going on with her and i am there for her every single time, which is all the time. She says she is coming to my place after work around 3am, shes a bartender. DO I not Deserve a text or phone call saying "hey im not coming tonight, and the reason"?? She knows i worry about her when i dont hear especially when she tells me shes coming. Her car isnt in the best shape and allot of her stuff is at my place. I think it's disrespectful and not after our history knowing that i want a text or call, its the middle of the night, her car, the condition of her house. Ive been researching and i shouyldnt be bothered when a girl doesnt call and go on about my business, but i htink we are past the point of that. She knows she can call or text and i will answer.. There is no reason for her not to and plenty of reasons she should.. Why cant i get a phone call or text..???? Edited February 24, 2017 by AdamJones
Fruitee Posted February 24, 2017 Posted February 24, 2017 Sorry whats the question? She was supposed to come to you but didnt? Well ofc she should inform you in such case. Especially since its in the middle of the night. Not sure about your relationship status but seems like she dont really care about you.
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