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How to forget about a girl that rejected me?


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So I was talking to this girl in my class (college) for about a week and we had a couple of good conversations. It's in a classroom setting and the teacher talks most of the time so we just have short conversations and ****. She does laugh at my jokes and stuff and I thought we had like a mutual thing. Sometimes it does get awkward at the end of class because she for some reason leaves quickly so we never talked like after lecture. I asked out two girls before in my life and I got rejected twice. This was after like a month or two of talking and me catching feelings.

 

I started thinking about her a lot and I wanted her to get off my mental so I can focus on other ****. So I asked her out a little abruptly. I texted her for the homework and then like two texts later I asked if she wanted to study for the quiz at the library today because it's gonna be a hard one. Flat line. I don't even know where I ****ed up. I've also never had a girlfriend or dated or whatever, so I'm pretty inexperienced.

 

For some reason, I can't stop thinking about her. Has this happened to anyone else? I hope binge drinking this weekend can help it lol.

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That wasn't asking for a date. That sounded more like wanting her to help you with your homework. But if she didn't answer, she didn't want to do that. I wouldn't ask her out again, though. If she was interested in you, she might have said something back even if it was "no, busy."

 

Just realize it's not going to happen and that you don't want someone who doesn't want you and move on. It could be for literally the most insignificant of reasons. It may have nothing to do with you at all but her own life or that she likes someone else.

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