Dandy Posted February 22, 2017 Posted February 22, 2017 I've been on tinder for some months and I've gotten plenty of matches. It kinda reassures me that I'm not that ugly and I'm at least above average. However, I've come to the realization that my texting game sucks. It's abysmal. Most of my matches ignore me and when I do have a great pick up line that works I seem to bore them later on. My question to both guys and girls is: What can I do to get these matches on to real life and have sex/relationships with them. Are there any good guides to read? And I don't mean the fake ones that give out a few tips and then ask you to enter your email to receive more. Are there videos that have useful pointers?
d0nnivain Posted February 22, 2017 Posted February 22, 2017 First Tinder is about hookups more then relationships. The people you meet from there might not want more. Think about where you are looking. The key to any interaction is communication. You have to be able to make conversation. Get to know the person. Flirt. Be easy to be with. Smile. Act like you are having a good time.
Gaeta Posted February 22, 2017 Posted February 22, 2017 Get yourself on a real dating site, with a real profile, and talk about yourself and be yourself. 1
Author Dandy Posted February 22, 2017 Author Posted February 22, 2017 First Tinder is about hookups more then relationships. The people you meet from there might not want more. Think about where you are looking. The key to any interaction is communication. You have to be able to make conversation. Get to know the person. Flirt. Be easy to be with. Smile. Act like you are having a good time. I know Tinder is for hookups. The problem is making conversation. How the hell to make it? And I still have the same problem with dating sites. I can get women to look at my profile or reply but I always seem to bore them.
Sweetfish Posted February 23, 2017 Posted February 23, 2017 I know Tinder is for hookups. The problem is making conversation. How the hell to make it? And I still have the same problem with dating sites. I can get women to look at my profile or reply but I always seem to bore them. arrange a date as soon as possible..
rushed Posted February 23, 2017 Posted February 23, 2017 The chats I've always enjoyed on Tinder usually included hilarious conversations over the most mundane things (e.g. craving a burger leading to talks about being a terrible cook, hiking while getting loaded on whiskey probably not being a good idea, etc.), light flirting, and plenty of joking. Convos that basically go "How was your day?" "Fine, how was yours?" bored me to death. Talk about things that you did that day and/or ask her what she's done and find ways to make her laugh and flirt while doing so.
d0nnivain Posted February 23, 2017 Posted February 23, 2017 Conversations are about interacting. Ask Qs. Be prepared to answer Qs. Be interested in what the person is saying -- look at them when they talk; hear them don't be thinking about what you are going to say next. You don't have to be the wittiest person on the earth but kindness & a smile help. What do you talk to your friends & family about? Discuss those subjects with your date.
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