B-Romantic Posted February 22, 2017 Posted February 22, 2017 Hello everyone, just a girl seeking advice. My boyfriend and I broke up a week ago today. It has been really difficult. I truly have seen the errors we both went about during our relationship. He broke up with me and I was completely devastated, I begged him back and everything. We fought often as the distance was harder than we both anticipated. We truly love one another, talked about the future, children, and we were very happy. He left for college and it made things very difficult. Insecurities came about, fighting, trust issues, it was really hard. Every time he came back home to visit, we were reminded of our love and we were stronger than ever, but then he would leave and it would all start over again. I was not very trusting and I was very insecure which made things difficult. I know the love is there. I know the love is real, but he could not do it anymore. He broke up and said it was best for him. He cut all contact and he has not spoken to me since, which has been tough as we used to talk 24/7. He is coming down next month and his friend said he is still unsure if he wants to see me. I just need advice. Has this happened to anyone else? Is there a chance for reconciliation? I understand my insecurities, I suffer from anxiety and have been working on it greatly. We were each other's everything, is there still hope? B.
preraph Posted February 28, 2017 Posted February 28, 2017 I'm sorry this is so painful for you. It is very difficult to keep a long-distance relationship going unless there is a plan in place and an end in sight to be together. To be blunt, men are very visual creatures, and out of sight, out of mine. Skype helps, but Skype isn't your loving arms either. And men aren't good waiters. Unless one or both of you wants to make changes to be together, I don't see the point continuing either. I hope you feel better soon and get out with your friends.
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