princess67 Posted February 21, 2017 Posted February 21, 2017 My boyfriend travels often for work. He usually brings me a gift back from every place he has gone to. But the last two places he has travelled, he has brought me nothing back. He just got back from another trip today and no gift. I don't care if he spends a lot of money. It does not have to cost much at all. I just wanted him to be thinking about me. He knows how hard it is for me to be away from him and it would have been a thoughtful gesture. I just worry he may be losing interest in me. Or am I reading too much into it? And I am not sure if I should bring it up to him or not.
Spikiera Posted February 21, 2017 Posted February 21, 2017 Definitely reading into it too much. It was a nice thing for him to do and he did it several times. Without bringing home gifts does not mean he is losing interest. Maybe he is saving up for something big, who knows.
LostOnes05 Posted February 21, 2017 Posted February 21, 2017 You're a mistress. Maybe he gave those gifts to, ya know...his wife. 10
BeingBlunt Posted February 21, 2017 Posted February 21, 2017 You are expecting WAY too much. He is not obligated to bring you back a gift and if this is the guy that is having an affair with you, it would look highly suspicious if he kept bringing home gifts to his wife that he isn't going to give to her. Seriously, drop him and move on! This isn't going to end well for you!
Versacehottie Posted February 21, 2017 Posted February 21, 2017 You could switch it up and have a gift waiting for him when he gets home---it is an idea 4
PegNosePete Posted February 21, 2017 Posted February 21, 2017 You could switch it up and have a gift waiting for him when he gets home---it is an idea Yeah, maybe ask his wife what his favourite brand of whiskey is 2
1fish2fish Posted February 21, 2017 Posted February 21, 2017 Boyfriend??? If it's the same person in your other thread (that was moved to The Other Man/Woman), he's not your boyfriend. He's your married affair partner.
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elaine567 Posted February 21, 2017 Posted February 21, 2017 I'm afraid he may think he has you, so no need now to offer gifts to keep you sweet. OR he is buying gifts for another woman. OR he is mad at you for some reason and is doing it deliberately. OR his wife may be monitoring his credit card use, so he can't buy you gifts any longer without her knowing. Is this your bf or your MM?
mikeylo Posted February 21, 2017 Posted February 21, 2017 If he buys a gift for you , is that the only way you get confirmation that had is thinking about you ?
GoldSparkz Posted February 22, 2017 Posted February 22, 2017 I agree with the others. Also, having a mistress is costing him too much money so he can no longer afford to buy you any more gifts. If it causes you so much concern, why don't you find a man who isn't married and can focus his attentions on you. You've been with this married guy for 4 years right? He's probably bankrupt having to support two women.
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