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Picked up a girl, gave her business details accidently instead of personal details.

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Hey guys,

 

The story is with me is that, I was at a club dancing the nigiht away and this girl was eyeing me all night. Dancing close to me and so forth, sO I decided to take my chance.

 

What happened was, she was with 2 girls and 3 guys, so I assumed she might of had a boyfriend. I leaned over and asked her if she had a man, she said no, so I then asked her if she wanted to dance. She grabbed my hand and we were grinding together and dancing close, holding hands etc etc.

 

We were connected, however her friend was feeling ill, and wanted to leave so this girl had to leave as well. I said to her, If i give you my contact details will you call me? She said oh for sure.

 

So I gave her my business card. She then kissed the card, and I kissed her forehead and wished her a goodnight as she fled the club.

 

 

This was yesterday, now today I realised that. I gave her my BUSINESS CARD!! IT has my work number and Fax number on there, and my email address. But no CELL NUMBER!!

 

So I think I scrwed up!!

 

What do you guys think?

 

My friends say its okay, and that there is nothing to worry about. If she is a bit shy she could always email me? BUt I don't know

 

Some other friends saying its kinda weird, and she might not call.

 

Kind Regards

 

Deluxe

A Fly onThe Wall Established Member

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Relax ... She will just call you at work

 

You didn't do anything wrong..

 

No dating rules say you have to give her your home phone..

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But what if she doesn't? Would it be because of my Card ordeal?

A Fly onThe Wall Established Member

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No.. If she doesn't she just wasn't interested..

 

Look.. You gave her a valid way to get in touch with you .. Nothing wrong with it

Rosalind Established Member

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No big deal...I remember a time before cell-phones...men would give me their business cards...I would get in touch with them.

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True, Im 22 and she is 19.

 

At that age wouldn't they think its a bit.. weird?

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Oh the suspense! The future of the rest of your lives rests in the fate of whether or not this girl is afriad to contact you at your work number or email, or not! Seriously, if she wants to get to know you, she will contact you through the methods you made available to her. Look at it the other way around- if someone you were interested in gave you their business contact details only, would you refuse to contact them?!

 

 

I have a side question, if I may... this brings up something I've been thinking about. I think giving someone your card is a great way to establish communication after the first meet, provided you were unable to directly get the persons phone number. However, I do feel a little wierd giving out my business card. Even if I do write my personal phone or email on the back, I don't really want someone knowing my business info as well, or my company or title for that matter. So is giving out the business card a common practice, or not? I always though having a "personal" card was a great idea, but I'd be afraid women would find it strange and be a little freaked out about it.

 

How do you guys give out your information?

Rosalind Established Member

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<-------chick here

 

Maybe it's cuz I'm a little older, but I've never received a 'personal card', guys just give me a scrap of paper with their tel# on it.

 

And I only give out my email addy - maybe I'm the weird one. :confused:

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Hey guys,

 

She emailed me!

 

She invited me out with her friends to some Tavern in the upcoming weeks..

 

But the thinkg is, I want to see her alone first, perhaps at a cafe, before I get surrounded by strangers I dont know...

 

So Im kinda confused on how I should ask her? I dont want her feeling uncomfortable.

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Deluxe--you need to take a valium.

 

OK, she called you--is there a way to get back in touch with her?

 

ring ring Hello? Hi this is Deluxe how are you doing? OK. Hey, I am looking forward to the tavern thingy in a few weeks but would really like to see you before that. Do you think we could grab a coffee/movie/dinner this week?

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Haha, thanks man

 

Its been 5 years since I dated a girl! my last girl ruined me and left me for dead ( Literally ) . So Ive been out of the scene! So im new to this again.

 

But I appreciate everyones assistance

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But the thinkg is, I want to see her alone first, perhaps at a cafe, before I get surrounded by strangers I dont know...

 

I know exactly how you feel. Try what soccorsilly suggested if you can, but don't force it. She's likely looking for support/protection in her group of friends while she first gets to know you. You haven't proved you arn't an axe murderer yet. ;) Just deal with it, be nice, make friends with her friends, and take it from there.

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hey guys, just a brief update on the situation.

 

Since Monday, she hasn't emailed me back. Its now Friday.

 

Could she be playing hard 2 get?

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