Jiavonni Posted February 19, 2017 Posted February 19, 2017 My partner and I have not officially broken up yet but I don't see any other options for us. I realized that I've been feeling extremely lonely in this relationship for a very long time which both drives my desire to end it/break off from this relationship that is not fulfilling my needs as well as my desire to dig my heels in deeper and find someway to get the affection and intimacy from them that I'm missing. This feeling keeps me up at night and aggravates my anxiety which makes it hard to focus during the day - particularly at work - and the cycle just reinforces my financial dependency on the relationship as well. I know that the straight forward answer to this is to meet new people and focus on that but it's the middle of the night and honestly maybe I just need someone to talk too to take my mind off of how angry and hurt I am about all of this.
LitTunnel Posted February 19, 2017 Posted February 19, 2017 Just make sure you've exhausted all avenues before calling it quits. Communication is key. Once a breakup happens everything changes. So make sure you're 100% certain.
Pumpingiron34 Posted February 19, 2017 Posted February 19, 2017 Sounds like the end of my relationship and what i learned from the end of my relationship is be the dumper. I couldn't do it because my heart was to big but, i sensed the end coming near, i really wanted to fix it but had no idea how. Then wham, she slaughtered my heart remorselessly. Which ending on half decent terms i feel is better than getting cheated on because honestly that **** hurts like a mf. Maybe try communicating your feelings one last time than if that dont work abort mission.
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