coolheadal Posted February 28, 2017 Posted February 28, 2017 When should you really ask a girl to meet for the first date when you have met online? Should it be within the first few days considering she will be getting matches daily from the dating site? Or should it be done slowly to avoid scaring her away? Should you have a phone conversation before asking her to meet or is texting good enough? Advice would be really helpful and appreciated No you shouldn't meet them so fast. Although I had one that I had called up on the first attempt. She didn't want to wait and met me the next day at Starbucks near her house. That happen so quickly she was really into me. But in the end that was too good to be true. She fell off the radar scope. So I move on to then next. Best advise for you is to take your time when she's ready to meet you then you do that. Don't force things with her. After a few text or phone calls you can say let's meet-up on Saturday and such and so place. Or you can drive and pick her up. (This part depends on how you feel as well as her) Just have to play it by ear as they said. Listen, Learn and accept.
phineas Posted February 28, 2017 Posted February 28, 2017 (edited) how i used to do it. After 5 or 6 messages i ask for the number. I text her who it is then tell her i'd like to talk on the phone. I get them on the phone in a day or two and after chatting decide if i want to meet then ask them for a date. whole thing takes from 1 day to 3 days to set a date and I prefer a meet that week. if at any point they decline to give me a number, give me a phone call, give me a date I stop talking to them. They aren't interested. Scheduling a date a week out usually = flake 9/10 times. If i can't meet them in a few days i tell them i'll hit them up after the weekend so we can schedule something then shoot for mid week. if they respond. Edited February 28, 2017 by phineas
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