d0nnivain Posted February 19, 2017 Posted February 19, 2017 Girls who are addicted to social media (and the attention they get from there) and girls who have 99% guy friends vs. 1% girl friends = Red Flag for Cheating Potential. And social media. If they follow lot of men/women who also comment and like their photos. Ridiculous. Social media is not real life. I'm a happily married faithful wife. Just because some guy is my FB friend who liked a status if mine does not mean I'm going to sleep with him. That is insane. I agree that you may be able to get some clues or develop a reason to investigate a particular relationship more closely from Social Media but alone it means nothing. It's effortless to click "like". It's not that hard to toss off a comment. Arranging a real life schedule to meet clandestinely takes genuine effort
Life lessons Posted February 19, 2017 Posted February 19, 2017 I have never cheated and never will. I would much rather break up with someone than cheat on them. It's a matter of morals, values and upbringing. I've said the same thing!!
Fruitee Posted February 19, 2017 Posted February 19, 2017 Ridiculous. Social media is not real life. I'm a happily married faithful wife. Just because some guy is my FB friend who liked a status if mine does not mean I'm going to sleep with him. That is insane. I agree that you may be able to get some clues or develop a reason to investigate a particular relationship more closely from Social Media but alone it means nothing. It's effortless to click "like". It's not that hard to toss off a comment. Arranging a real life schedule to meet clandestinely takes genuine effort Social media is part of real life. I am not talking about one like from a male. I am talking about following all kinds of butt and boob accounts and having tens of women commenting hearts and kisses under his photos. Youre not being very smart if you dont think ones social media behaviour is indicator of their personality. Because it is. 1
preraph Posted February 19, 2017 Posted February 19, 2017 Keep your eyes open for red flags, but there's no sure-fire way because men will lie to you and tell you what it takes to get sex. If he takes you on real dates, that's good. If he seems to just be angling to "hang out," that's not good. If he calls the same day for a date, that's him looking to get laid OR he's terrible disorganized and who needs that either? Don't accept same-day dates. Don't accept hangout at apartment dates until you know him well enough. Watch him when you're out and see if he's watching every woman that goes by or flirting with the waitress. If he's watching his smartphone while you're supposed to be on a date and he's supposed to be paying attention to you, like over dinner, that's not good. It's impolite at minimum and probably means he's playing a lot of people. I mean, if it was just friends, it would wait until he's home from the date, right? Or family. Guys have learned to fake interest in women and ask them questions, because they know that's the only way, but you can sometimes tell if he's listening or not. If he's constantly trying to get further touching you on the first date, he's probably just after sex. I mean, a date is supposedly to get to know someone and see if you want to a second date, not to see how far up their leg you can crawl when you just met them. Likewise, if he keeps just talking about sex, clearly that's all on his mind. He's testing the waters to see if you're going to put out.
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