IllFatedLover Posted July 23, 2005 Posted July 23, 2005 It's me again... So after reading all of the advice you gave me last time, I was txting with that chick and i sent her a txt along the lines of "do you want to do something with me after work tonight?" and she didn't write back any kind of responce so when i got to work, I was just doing my normal thing because she didn't get in till about 4 hours later. When she did come in it was like i had never even asked her out. In fact she was a little more friendly to me so I guess sxhe didn't know how to react. Well turns out that night she was actually going up to the lake wiht some of her friends. Maybe this is why she didn't mention it? Well the next day, i was at work again and I was talking to "Alex" that works in another department and he was telling me that his ex-gf was camping out in his driveway when he got home at 4 in the morning, the girl i like didn't get back till 4 in the morning so i deduced that he was with her and her friends...when i told him "so how was the lake?" he got the weirdest look on his face like i just found out his deepest secret and wanted to know who i found it out from. later on he was telling me that if he and this girl were ever more than friends he would let the whole world know, or woudl he. i don't know what to do. ask her out again like over the phone so she has to have some kind of responce or not because it seems that this other kid likes her too. this si what happened with the last girl i liked, somebody beat me to the punch. awwwwwwwwwww!!!!!!!!!!!! -Confused
Max Overclock Posted July 23, 2005 Posted July 23, 2005 I suggest you find another girl. From a distance, it would appear that this one's drama to the max. Lots of great girls around ... go find em.
Author IllFatedLover Posted July 23, 2005 Author Posted July 23, 2005 Don't you think I havn't thought about that? You can't pick who you fall for can you?
Author IllFatedLover Posted July 24, 2005 Author Posted July 24, 2005 any more ideas??? i am desperate for some help
Grinning Maniac Posted July 24, 2005 Posted July 24, 2005 You cannot decide who you fall for, that is correct. However, when the person you fall for causes you pain, you CAN decide to walk away. I doubt that this is the last romantic situation you'll get into in your lifetime.
Swamp Posted July 24, 2005 Posted July 24, 2005 Ever heard the story of the tortoise and the hare? This is actually perfect for you if someone beat you to the punch. Now while they date and quickly break up over the next month or two, you can cultivate a very genuine and solid friendship with her. Never underestimate the power of friendship when you are pursuing a lover, and NEVER let anyone tell you that being in the friend-zone is a bad thing. It's only bad if you have no idea how to use it to your advantage.
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