Do You Believe Women Are More Genuine & Authentic Then Men?

[KevCA31]

I've talked to to many women, on dating sites, complaining about men. They are deceitful and liars. They will say and do anything for sex.

 

Even when I read some forum posts about dating sites I hear the same thing. A woman complains she can't find any decent man. And she will get 100 emails from men who want to meet her. She views them as all scum.

 

However, the few women I've corresponded with on dating sites seem pretty nice. They appear genuine and honest.

 

So, generally speaking, are women more genuine and authentic then men?

[CaliforniaGirl]

I think it is an ages-old problem that fairly frequently (NOT always), men are more aggressive and yes, look for sex v. women, who do this less frequently.

 

That's been since the dawn of time, really, or at least the dawn of recorded history in a huge number of cultures. And yes, it can involve game-playing.

 

But I think another thing that is as old as time is "I can't find a decent man" AND "I can't find a decent woman." Because "decent" doesn't just mean averagely decent. MOST of us are that; sociopaths and certain types of the mentally ill are the exceptions. Other than that, generally, people are people, generally want the same things and are imperfect and occasionally jerks, but overall are okay.

 

So "I can't find a decent man/woman" is universal and doesn't literally mean decent...it means right for that person, which is trickier due to individuality.

 

So as regards fudging, lying or game-playing in general, I do think that's about equal; as regards finding the RIGHT person, that is, MOST of the time, tricky and takes a while.

[goldway90]

Text guys too and make your own opinion Seriously why are you listening to women complains on dating websites? this is straight route to the friendzone.

[d0nnivain]

No one gender has the corner on honesty or integrity.

 

 

The women who complain about men are only talking to men & only seeking to date men.

 

 

The men who complain about women are only talking to women & seeking to date only women.

 

 

There is no basis for comparative because their samples are skewed.

[OatsAndHall]

I won't message a woman that complains about "having their heart broken" or "having terrible luck", or anything else along those lines. Generally speaking, they are getting bombarded with messages from guys and chances are they are making poor choices of some kind. They have a wide variety of men hitting them up but something is amiss if they're THAT upset about their dating experience.

[Miss Spider]

I won't message a woman that complains about "having their heart broken" or "having terrible luck", or anything else along those lines. Generally speaking, they are getting bombarded with messages from guys and chances are they are making poor choices of some kind. They have a wide variety of men hitting them up but something is amiss if they're THAT upset about their dating experience.

 

Yeah more choices but women in general are way more selective than men. So she'd only be attracted to .5% of the men who message, only .25% of those men would have the right personality, only .125% would say they have the same relationship goals, .0625% are being 'genuine" about that, Looking at it that way, odds of success are about even for men and women lols.

[Nowty V]

are women more genuine and authentic then men?

 

So, generally speaking, Human Beings are Human Beings.. IMO gender has nothing to do with 'genuine and authentic'

 

More. Nurture and Nature influence genuine and authentic, gender doesn't

[carhill]

Long down the road of life OP I can state I was programmed to believe women are more loving, caring, genuine and authentic than men but, nah, not in my experience. Once I accepted the real, dealing with them became markedly easier and less unhealthy. However, on occasion, I still fight the old programming tapes but therapy taught me how to catch myself and shut the tape off.

 

People are individuals, both men and women alike. If the reverse to your title assertion is true, then guys fight the 'less than' label their entire lives. It is what it is, to the extent it is.

[kendahke]

I've talked to to many women, on dating sites, complaining about men. They are deceitful and liars. They will say and do anything for sex.

 

Even when I read some forum posts about dating sites I hear the same thing. A woman complains she can't find any decent man. And she will get 100 emails from men who want to meet her. She views them as all scum.

 

However, the few women I've corresponded with on dating sites seem pretty nice. They appear genuine and honest.

 

So, generally speaking, are women more genuine and authentic then men?

 

No. This isn't a blanket characteristic for either sex. This is down to the individual no matter what sex they are.

[todreaminblue]

i dont believe being genuine or authentic comes down to gender....i think it comes down to personal values..morals and ethics..standards......and both men and women can have or develop these characteristics.....and hold firm to values......i think it comes down to how you were raised.....honestly......deb