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Is ex sex ever a good idea?


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i will never let that ******* walk all over me again. I am so happy without him but I do miss sex. But he has hit me up with booty calls. I declined. But now I'm taking matters into my own hands. I told him this **** is on my terms now. And when I hit him up he better be ready to please me. He said yes. But now I'm wondering if I'm entering dangerous territory. I mean I don't want sex but I want him to pleasure me. I don't want anyone else right now. What are your experiences?

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Well, I can only assume things will get awkward after a while. Yes, the sex will be good but be prepared for what's to come.

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Me and my ex went to the Maldives about a year after we broke up. It just suited us both at the time despite all the bad crap from the past.

 

 

And yeah, the sex is usually pretty good.

 

 

I think the reason why sex with an Ex is good is because you have a history with that person but at the same time all the emotional stuff and pressures of a relationship are no longer there. So you both just end up enjoying the sex.

 

 

I've even found in my relationships that as they start to get rocky, the sex usually gets better. It's almost like when both parties aren't blinded with love, they start going back to some of their animal instincts etc.

 

 

If it was me, I think, you'd need to get into some sort of "friends with benefits situation". Otherwise, what are u going to do, walk out the door once the sex is over? It might be hard to get into the mood of sex if not doing a few things outside the bedroom.

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