lioil Posted February 16, 2017 Posted February 16, 2017 So I met this girl many years back and I was kinda interested in her. However, she had to go back to her home country due to work. We had very few contacts in between but we never removed each other from chat list. Recently I texted her and found out she is trying to do a transfer back here in April- that kinda piqued my interest again and am curious how to go about this if I want to pursue her? I think her age might be a problem as she's 34 now and I am pretty sure she's still single. Any advice? Thanks.
Gracieboo Posted February 16, 2017 Posted February 16, 2017 So I met this girl many years back and I was kinda interested in her. However, she had to go back to her home country due to work. We had very few contacts in between but we never removed each other from chat list. Recently I texted her and found out she is trying to do a transfer back here in April- that kinda piqued my interest again and am curious how to go about this if I want to pursue her? I think her age might be a problem as she's 34 now and I am pretty sure she's still single. Any advice? Thanks. Why would her age be a problem? How old are you? 1
d0nnivain Posted February 17, 2017 Posted February 17, 2017 Ask her to look you up when she returns. Put absolutely no hope or stock in anything about her until you see her again in person.
Author lioil Posted February 17, 2017 Author Posted February 17, 2017 Why would her age be a problem? How old are you? I am 35 . I guess age is problem in terms of having children. Its not impossible but harder. BTW, is asking if she's single too direct? I jokingly asked if she was going to movies with her boyfriend when she said she was going to see a movie this weekend. Turned out to be her girlfriend
Gracieboo Posted February 18, 2017 Posted February 18, 2017 I am 35 . I guess age is problem in terms of having children. Its not impossible but harder. BTW, is asking if she's single too direct? I jokingly asked if she was going to movies with her boyfriend when she said she was going to see a movie this weekend. Turned out to be her girlfriend Well, she is 34, if you find out she is the one and get to know her in a year or so, I dont think she is too old to have a child.
goldway90 Posted February 18, 2017 Posted February 18, 2017 I am 35 . I guess age is problem in terms of having children. Its not impossible but harder. BTW, is asking if she's single too direct? I jokingly asked if she was going to movies with her boyfriend when she said she was going to see a movie this weekend. Turned out to be her girlfriend Don't ask if she's single, assume she is and ask her to hangout with you. Stop thinking about relationships and kids, she's not even your gf.
Miss Spider Posted February 18, 2017 Posted February 18, 2017 (edited) Lol@ you already planning for kids with her and you don't even know if she really is single. I get you tho Also, notable decline in fertility after 35 is a myth based on 300 year old statistics. Edited February 18, 2017 by Cookiesandough 1
GoldSparkz Posted February 18, 2017 Posted February 18, 2017 I can't believe you consider 34 to be too old to have children easily! She's in her prime! I had my first at 34, conceived in the first month of trying. Sure fertility declines as you get older, but at her age her fertility is relatively high (86%). See the latest stats here: Your Chances Of Getting Pregnant At Any Age If her age is a problem for you (I assume it is since you mentioned it), why don't you look for a younger woman?
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