GTR King Posted February 15, 2017 Posted February 15, 2017 on POF Why do some girls view/see your profile then block you way before you have seen there profile/sent them a message... For example I will be looking on POF see a nice profile (I haven't seen them before) then decided to sent them a first message but see that they have blocked me... Why do girls do this?? when I have never contacted them before?
Miss Spider Posted February 15, 2017 Posted February 15, 2017 I did this when I accidentally clicked or I clicked on someone's profile I thought I was interested in but on closer inspection was not. I didn't want them to get the wrong idea I was interested and message me.
Author GTR King Posted February 15, 2017 Author Posted February 15, 2017 (edited) So girls will do this, so that they don't get messages from loads of men they don't like??? I am also fed up with girls on tinder wanting S*X On girl said she finish work at 2 and wanted S*X there and then (Her house or her car) but she was 15/30 mins away from my house and I was at work 30 mins walk so told her no can as finished work at 4.30 she wanted me to leave early.. I said no and she deleted me Edited February 15, 2017 by GTR King 1
Popsicle Posted February 15, 2017 Posted February 15, 2017 Wow. I didn't know people did this. Like, seriously? This can't be real or true! 1
Author GTR King Posted February 15, 2017 Author Posted February 15, 2017 Yep think so... You don't even get a chance to message them
Miss Spider Posted February 15, 2017 Posted February 15, 2017 I actually only learned later that it didn't "invis" me from the people I blocked...they might think the same. I thought it would erase my presence from their page =/
Miss Spider Posted February 15, 2017 Posted February 15, 2017 It's just people I didn't think I would match with. For example, the guywas really good looking but said he was super religious in his profile. Or had a different dating intent than I did. Could be anything. Just didn't want to waste their time. 1
Author GTR King Posted February 15, 2017 Author Posted February 15, 2017 So they would block you even before u message them just because they don't like your profile?
VeveCakes Posted February 15, 2017 Posted February 15, 2017 They can't block you unless you message them. They probably just "hid" their profile. I do this all the time. 2
Miss Spider Posted February 15, 2017 Posted February 15, 2017 You actually could:( from what I remember. It's on the app. You go to send a message to them then upper right hand corner has drop down menu to block. Hiding can still get messages iirc. I can't think of many other reasons they'd go through the trouble. Maybe they are nervous or embarrassed?
Author GTR King Posted February 15, 2017 Author Posted February 15, 2017 I never messaged this girl before and she blocked me... why tho She was a newish user hadn't messaged anyone since last week of jan
smackie9 Posted February 15, 2017 Posted February 15, 2017 Is there a setting where you can block everyone that messages you? Kinda like on FB.
Miss Spider Posted February 15, 2017 Posted February 15, 2017 I don't think so. There are restrictions. But it doesn't say blocked, it says something like this user has chosen not to receive messages from certain users. I'm not sure what it says what blocked. Did it say specifically you were blocked?
Author GTR King Posted February 15, 2017 Author Posted February 15, 2017 Yeah you can block anyone on POF... So if they don't your profile they block you... I think it's stupid, It's said you cannot message this user, you have been blocked I have never messaged her in my life before today
Miss Spider Posted February 15, 2017 Posted February 15, 2017 It's stupid on pof because ppl can see it. On OkCupid it completely erases your presence for that person (I think) they might think pof works the same way
Author GTR King Posted February 15, 2017 Author Posted February 15, 2017 I dunno why girls do it tho....
Popsicle Posted February 15, 2017 Posted February 15, 2017 They can't block you unless you message them. They probably just "hid" their profile. I do this all the time. Ooooh yeah, maybe this. Mine is hidden too.
Miss Spider Posted February 15, 2017 Posted February 15, 2017 I don't think you can see hiddens anywhere on the site unless you know their exact username a 1
Author GTR King Posted February 16, 2017 Author Posted February 16, 2017 I know girls hide there profile, but not sure you can do that on pof,
GoldSparkz Posted February 16, 2017 Posted February 16, 2017 I dunno why girls do it tho.... Most likely because they clicked on your profile by accident and don't want you to waste your time or theirs. I would do this also considering how much unwanted attention I get on OKC...even some of it aggressive. One guy last night was like "why r u ignoring me" because I had the cheek to not answer his first message. However, if I had responded with a polite "No", I would have got some abusive response. So sometimes it's easier to block when you aren't interested. I'm sure there are guys who do the same. I wouldn't be offended, just move on. 1
GoldSparkz Posted February 16, 2017 Posted February 16, 2017 Just noticed you're from my neck of the woods. Ipswich is a small town with some lovely people so it can't possibly be ladies from around here who are doing this :D:D
Author GTR King Posted February 16, 2017 Author Posted February 16, 2017 This girls was from Essex so that might be why, but there dose seem to be nice girls here but it's hard finding one
phineas Posted February 16, 2017 Posted February 16, 2017 I don't think you can see hiddens anywhere on the site unless you know their exact username a I was browsing pof without logging in and saw more women. Realized it was because they either blocked me or some restriction in their profile clashed with my profile. 1
d0nnivain Posted February 16, 2017 Posted February 16, 2017 I've never been on POF but here are my thoughts. If I read a profile & solely from what I read I already knew I wasn't interested, if the computer program offered me the option to definitely not waste the other person's time by blocking them I would. To me that saved the being rude by not responding or having to take my time to respond by saying no thank you. I remember when I was on OLD years ago, I could tell who read my profile. I always concluded that if he read it but didn't message me, he wasn't interested. But if I read some guy's profile, he'd inevitably contact me. It was awkward if I read things I didn't like. Be happy these women are being clear. As for the woman on tinder, you aren't mad that she was on there demanding sex. You are mad because she wouldn't wait a few more minutes for you to get there to have sex with her. You think she owed it to you to wait. Her purpose was to get sex now. You weren't available to provide her with what she wanted. She was always free to get her needs met elsewhere.
Chilli Posted February 16, 2017 Posted February 16, 2017 So girls will do this, so that they don't get messages from loads of men they don't like??? I am also fed up with girls on tinder wanting S*X On girl said she finish work at 2 and wanted S*X there and then (Her house or her car) but she was 15/30 mins away from my house and I was at work 30 mins walk so told her no can as finished work at 4.30 she wanted me to leave early.. I said no and she deleted me You serious , and what this is common on Tinder ? Sh@t !!!!!!!!
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