Gaeta Posted February 16, 2017 Posted February 16, 2017 He says that he could have "told me the story of when he knew he loved me" later, on his own time, instead of me pulling it out of him.. huh?? what?? Is he for real? On his own time as if you were asking him to move across the country with you. Pulling a story out of him? What's wrong with this man? All you wanted to hear is Honey I fell in love with you that time we had a walk on the beach. How is this pulling teeth? He apparently gets mad about texts after we get off the phone because of time difference, and he feels like it's a power trip of me trying to keep him awake. OK I heard enough. This man has some type of mental illness or personality disorder that makes him paranoid. I would not deal with that, goodness NO. Life is hard enough without having a paranoia put in everything I say or do. Find yourself a nice local man.
Author NotLookingBack1 Posted February 16, 2017 Author Posted February 16, 2017 He says that sex is big deal and a bonding thing for him. I'm not sure if that means he thinks it isn't for me or what... I'd had sex a whopping two times before we got together (despite the fact I've been on contraceptives for years and had plenty of offers), he knows this, so I think it should be pretty apparent that I take seriously as something bonding, intimate and special too.
olivetree Posted February 16, 2017 Posted February 16, 2017 This is blunt but I think it's the truth: He got mad about you asking when he fell in love with you because he isn't in love with you. All of his actions you have mentioned speak to that fact. And that he's an ass. You also sound like you're not on the same page about a lot of things. Why not find someone that is?
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