lucasargeseanu Posted February 14, 2017 Posted February 14, 2017 t has been one month since me and my girlfriend ended our 2 year and a half relationship. We have both accepted it was the good decision, but she still sends texts from time to time that I keep answering like the stupid guy that I am ( since she has a new relationship anyways ). I have started taking my healing process very serious and by that I mean going to gym everyday, talking to numerous girls and seeing them but with no luck in finding them special or wanting something with them. Before my girlfriend I dated dozens of women, went in bed with 30-40 of them. I cannot find in my mind or in my circle of friends a woman that I find more interesting, attractive or special. Even as I was writing this post, I received a message from my ex: " How are you doing? " I go out with women or friends and there are times when my mind just shuts down everyone and thinks of her. It's f**king frustrating. I think it's more of an obsession than something else. I do not want to go to therapy as I think I'm still young and I always thought you are the best psychiatrist for yourself. My ex-girlfriend wasn't very smart, but I like smart women , and I know some... My ex-girlfriend didn't have a very great family and I know some that have an incredible family to be a part of. My ex-girlfriend didn't have personal dreams regarding her career or what she wants to do and I know women with incredible motivation that are musicians , actors, doctors, lawyers, etc.. But I CANNOT FIND NONE OF THEM FIT FOR ME, especially regarding how they look.. My ex-girlfriend was, is and I think will be the most beautiful woman on earth. What is wrong with me? She keeps texting me all these naughty, flirty stuff and I can't keep wondering if it is a good idea to have sex with her, maintain a fwb arrangement while she is with that guy. I know sex with me will be awesome in comparison with that of the guy she is seeing now and I wonder if that maybe will have her wanting to leave that guy for me? Or is it exactly the opposite , making her go away even faster..as she wants only sex not a relationship with me right now.
d0nnivain Posted February 15, 2017 Posted February 15, 2017 If you have any hope to get over your EX you have to stop interacting with her. What good will it do you to have sex with her while she has a BF? Yes you will get sex but the emotional connection won't be there. If it is, you get hurt. If she comes back to you, then you also know that in addition to not having aspirations, not being smart & not having a good family, you will know that she also doesn't good ethics or morals because she was willing to cheat with you. Where is the upside for you? BTW, once she finds out what a low opinion you have of her & her family she won't want to be with you long term anyway so this may all be moot 1
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