fred123 Posted February 14, 2017 Posted February 14, 2017 Why does a girl say after 4 dates that they aren't looking for anything serious but enjoy hanging out and having fun but doesn't want to like anyone at the moment? why dont they say at the beginning ? why after the fourth date? when questioned further she says she is scared to like anyone and having a bf stresses her out.
goldway90 Posted February 14, 2017 Posted February 14, 2017 She's just not that into you. She doesn't want a relationship with YOU. 3
Gaeta Posted February 14, 2017 Posted February 14, 2017 Why didn't you ask her on your first meet? When I was online and a man sent me a message, right after saying hello my question to him was: So what are you looking for on here? It's a polite way to tell you she does not like you 'that way'. 1
Popsicle Posted February 14, 2017 Posted February 14, 2017 Why didn't you ask her on your first meet? When I was online and a man sent me a message, right after saying hello my question to him was: So what are you looking for on here? Right. You have to ask this. It may freighten those who are just playing around or unsure, but if you want certainty and nothing less, you have to ask. It weeds the uncertains out. 1
hercules22 Posted February 15, 2017 Posted February 15, 2017 see someone else see if she gets jealous lol she probably wont care though if she seriously was just after something casual
GoldSparkz Posted February 15, 2017 Posted February 15, 2017 She probably wanted to feel the spark but it wasn't quite there. Some people need a few dates to 'feel' it out. She doesn't owe you anything after 4 dates so I would get back on the dating merry-go-round and find someone new. 1
CaliforniaGirl Posted February 15, 2017 Posted February 15, 2017 She's just not that into you. She doesn't want a relationship with YOU. It's painful to say this but I agree ^ . It's a way of letting you down gently. That's nothing against you. We all want different things and there's no accounting for taste!
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