ACupcake Posted February 14, 2017 Posted February 14, 2017 (edited) I transferred to a new university just this semester and there is a guy who is in a few of my classes that has started hanging out with my friend and i. I thought he was interested in my friend at first, but then he started texting and flirting with me and he asked if I was single. The first few days of this was great, we were both communicating well and flirting well. He described himself as an introvert who doesnt like to go out much, so i was surprised when he asked to take me out to lunch on our day off. He didnt show up to the lunch date and when i texted him he said he had forgotten but promised "next time". Ever since then he has been distant. We texted a little bit Saturday night, so i thought things were picking up again. On sunday i asked if he wanted to go get food and he said he didnt want to, but we could "next time". Because of this, i have a suspicion that he's not really interested anymore, however this morning he texted "good morning:rolleyes:" and he gave me a big hug after class. But he also decided to go eat lunch by himself instead of with me and my friend like he normally does. I dont really know what to make of this. How do I know what he's trying to accomplish through this without directly saying "what are your intentions?!?!?" because i feel like that would ruin things. Edited February 15, 2017 by a LoveShack.org Moderator paragraphs ~6
d0nnivain Posted February 14, 2017 Posted February 14, 2017 He's either a game playing jerk or he's not just an introvert but somebody with some type of social anxiety meaning he things he wants to go out with you but he gets scared. Be friendly when you see him around but don't put any stock in the idea of dating him.
GoldSparkz Posted February 14, 2017 Posted February 14, 2017 How dare he stand you up and not even apologize or contact you first with an explanation?! You had to contact him to find out his whereabouts. I would be absolutely livid if a guy done this to me, I wouldn't want to see him again. He's a narcissist who's playing games with you and most likely a load of other women. Delete his number, put him out of your mind and concentrate on your studies. Sorry to sound harsh, but I've dealt with loads of these losers in my lifetime and have a grey hair strand for every one!
Author ACupcake Posted February 15, 2017 Author Posted February 15, 2017 yeah i don't have much experience with relationships, i guess i should pay attention to my gut and drop this one
hippychick3 Posted February 15, 2017 Posted February 15, 2017 In the future, if any guy stands you up for a date, do not contact him again. This is never, ever okay to do. Unless he was in a car accident or someone died, there is absolutely no forgiving this behavior. Ignore him and move on.
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