ironspider Posted February 13, 2017 Posted February 13, 2017 I've been lucky enough or cursed to land dates that are well above my level in terms of looks. I have a date tonight, we get along great via text. But she is way way too hot for me. I'm like a 6, she's like an 8.5 Would you go out just for the conversation with a beautiful women? Or not and save the money because you know it isn't going anywhere? My profile and opener are awesome so I know that's what's getting these ladies, but I'm kind of getting sick of the ones where I don't really have a shot.
CptInsano Posted February 13, 2017 Posted February 13, 2017 Why do you assume that the dates with these women won't go anywhere? They agreed on a date with you. You never know who might be attracted to you, so please consider them real dates. You never know who might be interested in you. Or is there something in your profile that gives these women a different impression compared to whom they are going to meet? 1
KBob Posted February 13, 2017 Posted February 13, 2017 You seem a little defeatist about it. What do you think is causing things not to work out? Obviously you have something to attract these women, so roll with it. Go out with them and play to win, not to lose.
preraph Posted February 13, 2017 Posted February 13, 2017 You may as well go out, but do not overcompensate. Treat her like any other date. Don't spend a freaking fortune just because you think she's hot. She'll see through that and also feel weird about it. Go somewhere nice where you can talk but not too expensive. Just be yourself and see what happens. I mean, unless you've been doctoring your photos, she knows what you look like, right? So unless you've been using old photos, you should have the same shot with her as anyone because she accepted and already knows what you look like. I assume if you're short, you didn't fail to mention that. 1
Author ironspider Posted February 13, 2017 Author Posted February 13, 2017 I am short but I disclose it in the profiles. My pics are current and untouched most people say I look like them. My profile is a big joke and its so obviously a joke nobody would believe the things anyway. I'm guessing they think I'm good looking but don't realize I'm only barely taller than them. I keep trying though, I don't go to fancy restaurants, in fact, I won't invite for dinner until the second date at a minimum, it's simply drinks or coffee on the first date.
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