Jump to content

Back at it - Not interested?


While the thread author can add an update and reopen discussion, this thread was last posted in over a month ago. Want to continue the conversation? Feel free to start a new thread instead!

Recommended Posts

  • Author
Posted

Ok he just text me something about his work day.

 

Last time I talked to him was Friday night at 10:30.

 

After reading this thread I wonder if there's any point with him being 4 hrs away.

 

Do I reply? Helppp :o

Posted

Four hours never stopped me if I wanted to see a guy, and it wouldn't stop most guys either. I've had guys fly in for weekends to see me. I've driven 3 hours to see a boyfriend who was in school out of town on more than one occasion, and he reciprocated by traveling to see me. I've flown to LA to see a gig a local guy had at The Whiskey because I thought he was cute and then been too jetlagged to leave with him when he asked.

 

I mean, if you meet someone you think might be special, you may put forth some extra effort. If, however, your plate is full right where you are or you just think the person is "okay," then you won't put forth the effort.

 

Answer him and stay in touch but don't text if there's nothing to talk about. See if he starts talking about meeting up. If not, then fade it out.

  • Like 2
  • Author
Posted

 

Answer him and stay in touch but don't text if there's nothing to talk about. See if he starts talking about meeting up. If not, then fade it out.

 

I think this is the best plan. Thanks!

  • Like 2
×
×
  • Create New...