hawx79 Posted February 12, 2017 Posted February 12, 2017 I am 37 year old man with no children and I managed to get a 3th date on Tuesday with a woman who is 36. We communicated for several months and soon we will meet. I am pretty nervous, anyone got tips for me? Do I need to give her a present?
Gaeta Posted February 12, 2017 Posted February 12, 2017 Are you meeting her for the 3rd time OR she is the 3rd woman you are meeting? Why have you been communicating for months? 1
smackie9 Posted February 12, 2017 Posted February 12, 2017 No gift! You could give her a small inexpensive but colorful bouquet of flowers, or a single red rose. Are you meeting for Valentine's Day? Then a single rose would be appropriate. 2
preraph Posted February 12, 2017 Posted February 12, 2017 Congrats on going on a date! No, no present. You do not want to look desperate. Remember, this is just a date. A date is just to get to know someone to see if they're at all suitable. It's not a marriage proposal or a promise that it will go any further than a first date. So best way to behave on a first date is go somewhere public and be a gentelman, but don't be too serious. Try to relax and just be casual and friendly and ask her some questions about herself to get her talking. Not yes-and-no questions, but "Tell me how you ended up" questions. Pay the bill, drop her off. Little kiss on the mouth when you walk her to her door, and then leave, don't linger. Tell her next day you enjoyed it (if you did) and see how she responds before asking out again. If she ducks your kiss at the door, thank her for the date but don't recontact. She's not some teenager too shy to kiss. 2
d0nnivain Posted February 12, 2017 Posted February 12, 2017 Tuesday is Valentine's Day. You should get her a token: perhaps 1 rose or a small heart box of chocolate. Not both. Great her hello with a kiss even on the cheek if you haven't been smooching yet. Be chivalrous -- open doors, pull out chairs, help her with her coat. Etc. Listen to her & make eye contact when we speaks. Be interested in what she has to say. 4
GoldSparkz Posted February 13, 2017 Posted February 13, 2017 I second all the advice already posted. However, I'll add that it's important to have fun, enjoy yourself, live in the moment and feel grateful that you have good company. Don't put too much expectations into the 3rd date. 3
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