beloved0406 Posted February 12, 2017 Posted February 12, 2017 (edited) i met this girl over this dating app around march 2016 . She lived around 4 hours away from and we talked for few days and then i got her number and we talked for a day or 2 because i thought she was weird and then i started following her on Instagram and she posted a pic and i texted her once again in May going" what did i see" as a joke and that conversation stopped in a day. She posted another picture in September and i texted her this time and we been talking since then till now. But i saw her in November for few hours because i was in town for a dance comp and it was all good. December she went to her mother land for a month and we still kept talking. I stooped talking a few days before new years and she kept double texted me to wish me new years. I saw her on jan 27th for 2 days at this point we are really close. She slept with me for 2 days. i tried cuddling but she dint deny it or push me off but somewhat cuddled i guess. Next morning i asked if i was forceful or shouldn't have done something and she said i was fine. Second day we went out i got drunk and started making out with her and she kept saying "you live to far you live to far" and once i got to my hotel we made out again in bed and she said the same thing. Next morning when we woke up i made out with her again n then i left to come back home. While i was on the way i asked her why she made out with me she goes okay this is gonna be mean but " i was really drunk" i said ahah its not mean its fine. n when i asked her why she made out with me in the morning she goes i just went with the flow. I was her first kiss she said. So i got back home Sunday and the second i got home that very moment she started acting weird.. her texting slowed down barely texts, takes forever to text now. So it was Tuesday now and i asked her is everything okay did someone say something and she goes " na no one said anything but whatever happened shouldn't have happened. I want to make sure you are aware that this is not going to happen. I don't want you to think i am a jerk or i am leading you on or anything" . And its been 2 weeks today since i saw her and 12 days since she told me that. This girl slept with me for 2 days and she has never slept with anyone or kissed anyone before. I was her first kiss. She could of pushed me if she wanted to but didn't. Its been 2 weeks and we don't talk the same. don't text the same ... yes we still text everyday but she takes forever to text and yes she is in school and so am i.. Few days ago i asked her why she is being weird did i do something wrong because i feel guilty and she goes no i didn't do anything wrong and that she been busy. I am 21 and she is 20..what i don't understand is where did i go wrong? where did i mess up? how can i fix this Thank you for your help Edited February 12, 2017 by a LoveShack.org Moderator paragraphs were added, please use them. also removed to the word bitch
LivingWaterPlease Posted February 12, 2017 Posted February 12, 2017 You might get more replies by posting this in the dating forum as this is a forum for people who are in a romantic and/or sexual relationship with a taken person. However, possibly you are wondering if the woman you're interested in may have a SO?
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