Ilovelifeforwhatcome Posted February 12, 2017 Posted February 12, 2017 After a very difficult emotional confusion w/my partner (prob ex now), I decided to rejoin the dating website I had been using. There was a guy who I had daily message exchanges for 2 months before I met someone. I guess he didn't want to rush things and turned down my offers for dates. It was flattering to get attention, so I continued contact. I deleted my profile once I started dating someone. The guy found me w/in an hour of putting up my profile and after a little exchange, we set up a date. I never planned on dating so soon, I assumed it would take awhile to weed out creepers (of which I have a lot of). He even remembered my birthday. Creepy or flattering?
SoleMate Posted February 12, 2017 Posted February 12, 2017 Probably more on the flattering side (unless he does something actually creepy). He could just be very shy and your absence has made him realize he needs to step up to be able to date you.
grays Posted February 12, 2017 Posted February 12, 2017 Flattering. First of all, unless your bday was holloween or xmas, he prob just looked back a little in your old messages. I have been OLD for about two years now and people come and go that way and Ive had good experiences w guys who i texted with for a while, forgot about, and then reconnected with later. One in particular Ive been seeing for almost a year now and he's been a great friend and fwb. Im so happy I ended up meeting him even though I had no idea who he was when he texted me on my phone (so no profile to look at) and I mostly met him on the assumption that I prob liked him if I gave him my number. lol Sometimes people just get under your skin just from profile and messaging and when that happens to me, I usually remember them months later.
Author Ilovelifeforwhatcome Posted February 12, 2017 Author Posted February 12, 2017 Probably more on the flattering side (unless he does something actually creepy). He could just be very shy and your absence has made him realize he needs to step up to be able to date you. No def nothing creepy lol, though I did message him when I started dating another guy hoping everything would be fine. He found me on fb, wished me luck and told him to hit him up if it didn't work out. Well I guess it didn't, I was tempted to contact him, but I didn't need to. This time I was done beating around the bush and I told him well if a guy doesn't want to go on a date w/me, I assume he isn't interested. After that he asked me when and where lol. I wasn't pushing or chasing him, just sick of run around in circles.
TheTraveler Posted February 12, 2017 Posted February 12, 2017 Im so happy I ended up meeting him even though I had no idea who he was when he texted me on my phone (so no profile to look at) and I mostly met him on the assumption that I prob liked him if I gave him my number. lol Good to know. I'll message a bunch of them soon as i have a crap ton of digits in my phone from the past year:lmao:
GoldSparkz Posted February 12, 2017 Posted February 12, 2017 Sounds flattering to me. Sounds like he met his match when he first saw your profile so was excited when you returned. I'd definitely give him a chance.
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