What is wrong with some ladies these days?

[OatsAndHall]

I would most bet there were many guys in the grand scheme and one bumped you off within the time frame...

 

good riddance:D

 

Yup. Welcome to the wondrous world of OLD. You've been weighed, measured and found wanting, unfortunately.

 

I am also extremely wary of any woman who goes over-board with the flattery via messaging. Or even after a few dates for that matter. I found this a lot with women who were non-committal when it came to meeting up. They'd gush over me via text and message to try and keep me interested while they were shopping around.

[preraph]

Yup. Welcome to the wondrous world of OLD. You've been weighed, measured and found wanting, unfortunately.

 

I am also extremely wary of any woman who goes over-board with the flattery via messaging. Or even after a few dates for that matter. I found this a lot with women who were non-committal when it came to meeting up. They'd gush over me via text and message to try and keep me interested while they were shopping around.

 

And you SHOULD always be wary of anyone who is flattering you, whether it's from OLD or at the office. It's not normal to just flatter people and butter them up. They are always up to something.

[ShyLove]

My guess is that she met someone else (who she liked more) right before your first date.

She probably still wanted to give it a shot, because you never know... even though she already lost some interest which you noticed, then when she saw you she knew it wouldn't work out so she cut the date short and deleted you

 

This or her ex came back into the picture and started contacting her again. I have had many many people (men & women) admit that they flock to online dating sites when they are fighting with exes or to get attention when the guy or girl they really like reject them or ghost on them. That's why I never contact people who put recently single in their profiles, although it is good that they are at least honest about it.

[Imajerk17]

I think people are being a bit hard on the OP. This is what I got had happened:

 

1. Girl and guy make contact online.

2. Girl seems quite into the guy while they are chatting before meeting up.

3. For some mysterious reason, Girl suddenly loses interest in Guy...this happens about 24--48 hours BEFORE meeting up.

4. They meet up, and Girl continues to be chilly towards Guy.

5. Girl just goes ahead and just blocks said Guy.

6. And so Guy is confused, wondering what happened.

 

Anyway, I think the responses that Girl can somehow see that Guy has deep-seated anger issues or is controlling or grabby are a bit much. I think instead Guy's confusion is actually justified.

 

What I think happened: I think the girl built OP up in her mind in such a way that no real life male could possibly lived up to. Although in this case, she tired of said fantasy before you even met. OR she might be still stinging from a recent breakup and she was trying to self-medicate by coming on fast and strong w the next guy. BOTH genders are prone to doing this in OLD, by the way.

 

So from reading this I don't really think it's anything the OP did, I think instead it is on the girl's end. As said earlier, there might be a very recent ex who she is trying to patch things up with.

 

ETA: I agree w what preragh (I think) said...the stronger someone comes on, the more likely they are to suddenly pull away.

Edited February 12, 2017 by Imajerk17

[Dis]

I think people are being a bit hard on the OP. This is what I got had happened:

 

1. Girl and guy make contact online.

2. Girl seems quite into the guy while they are chatting before meeting up.

3. For some mysterious reason, Girl suddenly loses interest in Guy...this happens about 24--48 hours BEFORE meeting up.

4. They meet up, and Girl continues to be chilly towards Guy.

5. Girl just goes ahead and just blocks said Guy.

6. And so Guy is confused, wondering what happened.

 

Anyway, I think the responses that Girl can somehow see that Guy has deep-seated anger issues or is controlling or grabby are a bit much. I think instead Guy's confusion is actually justified.

 

What I think happened: I think the girl built OP up in her mind in such a way that no real life male could possibly lived up to. Although in this case, she tired of said fantasy before you even met. OR she might be still stinging from a recent breakup and she was trying to self-medicate by coming on fast and strong w the next guy. BOTH genders are prone to doing this in OLD, by the way.

 

So from reading this I don't really think it's anything the OP did, I think instead it is on the girl's end. As said earlier, there might be a very recent ex who she is trying to patch things up with.

 

ETA: I agree w what preragh (I think) said...the stronger someone comes on, the more likely they are to suddenly pull away.

 

Agreed!

 

So sorry OP!

 

This is just me, but theres no reason to go on a date with someone and behave the way she did

 

I've gone out on dates with guys and ended up not being attracted to them but I'm always warm, friendly and sweet

 

You didnt do anything wrong OP. She either found a new guy a little before the date or she didnt end up liking you once she met you

 

In the future, when you take a girl out on a date and shes acting cold and a little impolite....end the date early and split the bill

 

Then block HER

[Gr8fuln2020]

She was not sexually attracted to you when she saw you in the flesh.

Sorry!

 

Absolutely! As soon as she saw you, she unplugged any connection you two may have had, or more accurately, she may have had with you. By the way, all that flattery, while texting, calling cannot be real, right? She hadn't even met you yet and she is speaking of characterisitcs that she had not witnessed in person.

[Galanthus]

I think people are being a bit hard on the OP. This is what I got had happened:

 

1. Girl and guy make contact online.

2. Girl seems quite into the guy while they are chatting before meeting up.

3. For some mysterious reason, Girl suddenly loses interest in Guy...this happens about 24--48 hours BEFORE meeting up.

4. They meet up, and Girl continues to be chilly towards Guy.

5. Girl just goes ahead and just blocks said Guy.

6. And so Guy is confused, wondering what happened.

 

Anyway, I think the responses that Girl can somehow see that Guy has deep-seated anger issues or is controlling or grabby are a bit much. I think instead Guy's confusion is actually justified.

 

What I think happened: I think the girl built OP up in her mind in such a way that no real life male could possibly lived up to. Although in this case, she tired of said fantasy before you even met. OR she might be still stinging from a recent breakup and she was trying to self-medicate by coming on fast and strong w the next guy. BOTH genders are prone to doing this in OLD, by the way.

 

So from reading this I don't really think it's anything the OP did, I think instead it is on the girl's end. As said earlier, there might be a very recent ex who she is trying to patch things up with.

 

ETA: I agree w what preragh (I think) said...the stronger someone comes on, the more likely they are to suddenly pull away.

 

Thank you very much appreciate it. Thanks.. yes that is totally correct here sir. Honestly, i never ever said anything rude, disrespectful, i was a gentlemen and just the way. 24-48 hours earlier she became cold for no reason tried to convince me that there is nothing wrong.

 

I will never ever change i haven't done anything wrong. She asked for a gentleman, a nice guy, a respectful guy, with manners.. someone who is serious who doesn't want to have sex with her which i wasn't looking for in the first place. So i don't know why someone above says that i am into sex not all i am not a little kid.

 

And yes how can there be a chemistry in first place if you reject me instantly? I mean.. you have seen me on facetime, the way i look, talk.. act.. etc why would you reject me then? That is the reason why i am really confused..

 

And really very childish.. removing me from Facebook, sending me family requests acting like she didn't do that.. it must me someone else.. and when i asked her honest opinion what is wrong? She is like nothing wrong just no chemistry.

 

But refused to have a great time to go playing pool and bowling.. 2 days before we would do that.. like this is a stupid game not for 2 people?

 

I was like oke... pretty weird. And sitting across me how can i create a chemistry and show her that i am interested.. or how can i break the ice if i have the feeling i am on a interrogation?

 

No big deal just very childish.. so i have tried to give her a hug when i went home.. she FAKE hugged me like no one ever did.

 

If there is one thing that i have learned.. don't judge based on how nice classy someone is dressed clothing says nothing.. neither do nice chats and phone calls.

 

She was looking for attention only.. to feed her ego doesn't matter life goes one...

 

Up to the next one

[Galanthus]

Agreed!

 

So sorry OP!

 

This is just me, but theres no reason to go on a date with someone and behave the way she did

 

I've gone out on dates with guys and ended up not being attracted to them but I'm always warm, friendly and sweet

 

You didnt do anything wrong OP. She either found a new guy a little before the date or she didnt end up liking you once she met you

 

In the future, when you take a girl out on a date and shes acting cold and a little impolite....end the date early and split the bill

 

Then block HER

 

 

First of all thank you very much lady. NO big deal honestly, no need to feel sorry that's life. I am happy that she have shown her real face instantly. I mean, as a woman why would you reject me at FIRST sight even when you know how i look, talk, dress.. btw i am always clean i shower, clean teeth.. smiling.. fresh haircut self confidence that can't be it really..

 

I mean.. why in gods name would you reject me and decline to even give it a chance to see if there is any chemistry at all? How can there be a chemistry or develop on.. if you reject me at sight, don't want to do fun stuff.. but instead sit across me give me the feeling like i am on a job interview.. pretty silly honestly.

 

Oke, so next time if a girl just acts cold just end the date and split the bill? I would NEVER ever in general let a lady pay the bill honestly. I am not like i am true gent, i am not too nice, not too hard.. something in between.

 

Doesn't matter.. lady but there is definitely one thing that i have learned yesterday i will never ever JUDGE a girl anymore by the way she dresses.. no disrespect to other lady's but having a HUGE cleavage doesn't say anything it could be the best girl in the world.. with a great character and personality.

 

I mean.. i tried giving her a hug in the beginning and at the end NEVER ever got such a FAKE smile in into my face and hug in my entire life.

 

Thanks anways.. please let me know what you think based on my reply.

 

God Bless..

[Galanthus]

I've always given a hug on the first meet via online dating. It's nice to finally meet them in person! Never had an awkward moment right off the bat.

 

In your situation you should of recognized the tell tale signs along the date and ended the night

 

Honestly, i wished i have ended early up... what a rude girl... totally DIFFERENT girl really it wasn't the girl which i have talked to on the phone and by message.

[Galanthus]

Yup, she pulled back as soon as you confirmed the plan to meet in person. Insecurities, defense mechanisms, feelings of unworthiness, fear of being rejected so she prevents that possibility by rejecting first and holding up the defensive shield. It's some combination of these most likely. If she had continued to be warm until you actually met I'd call it lack of attraction and chemistry... but she went defensive prior to meeting.

 

These are her issues, not yours. Don't give it a second thought. A lot of people on dating site are emotionally unavailable. You had no investment here, other than the 10 days you wasted messaging someone whose payoff was getting attention online but is unable to carry through in real life. Next!

 

Hey Sal! Thanks... She gave me that COLD shoulder before we even met.. acting like that and not even giving me a change to show my better side. Honestly, because of that.. i should have ended the date at sight.. i am mean pretty rude refusing even to give a hug.. instead you fake it soooo much? No words for this.. honestly never ever i have had something like this in my life.

 

Chemistry needs to come from 2 sides.. if she in this case refused to even try it.. to have some great time giving me some lame excuses not to do things which we have told that we are going to day.. is weird in first place.

 

And then removing me on FB, disliking my pics and sending me family requests.. and telling me that she didn't do that...

 

Nevermind.. she is not worth it...

[Galanthus]

Then block HER

 

Blocked her on FB before she could block me.. i have also cancelled the surprise valentine roses.. and chocolate just trying to show that i am interested in her not to have sex with her not all.

 

Stupid girl anyway

[Dis]

First of all thank you very much lady. NO big deal honestly, no need to feel sorry that's life. I am happy that she have shown her real face instantly. I mean, as a woman why would you reject me at FIRST sight even when you know how i look, talk, dress.. btw i am always clean i shower, clean teeth.. smiling.. fresh haircut self confidence that can't be it really..

 

I mean.. why in gods name would you reject me and decline to even give it a chance to see if there is any chemistry at all? How can there be a chemistry or develop on.. if you reject me at sight, don't want to do fun stuff.. but instead sit across me give me the feeling like i am on a job interview.. pretty silly honestly.

 

Oke, so next time if a girl just acts cold just end the date and split the bill? I would NEVER ever in general let a lady pay the bill honestly. I am not like i am true gent, i am not too nice, not too hard.. something in between.

 

Doesn't matter.. lady but there is definitely one thing that i have learned yesterday i will never ever JUDGE a girl anymore by the way she dresses.. no disrespect to other lady's but having a HUGE cleavage doesn't say anything it could be the best girl in the world.. with a great character and personality.

 

I mean.. i tried giving her a hug in the beginning and at the end NEVER ever got such a FAKE smile in into my face and hug in my entire life.

 

Thanks anways.. please let me know what you think based on my reply.

 

God Bless..

 

I appreciate that you like to pay for your date. All the men I've dated have done the same for me, however, I would never expect a man to pay if I was rude or impolite in anyway. When I go on dates I'm friendly, sweet, I always give them a hug when I meet them so I dont think they mind footing the bill

 

But why would this woman deserve to have you pay for her meal or drinks if she's not being respectful??? So, in the future, only pay for a date if the woman is being nice. And yes, end the date early if shes not.

 

As far as cleavage goes, or clothing style....thats not going to tell you much about a woman's character. I will say though... I dont think showing too much cleavage is ever a classy thing to do....I dont show too much...def not on a first date anyway

 

I think she wanted your attention and someone to buy her drinks...next time...dont do either

[mightycpa]

Hello,

 

First of all i do respect everybody don't get me wrong.

 

This is my short story, i have met this girl online which i have been talking for 10 days in a row.. sending me pics, having great conversations, phone calls.. laughing.. humor.. same opinions same conversation on the same level everything was just great... she used to call me a lot on the phone.. and vise versa.

 

So i said i that i would love to meet her, to have a great time.. she couldn't stop saying that she wants to hug me, be with me.. that she needs a real man like i am.. i have respect, i am a gentlemen, not too nice, not too hard.. something in between i am a great listener i never ever said anything rude because that is not the way to talk to a lady right?

 

I told her lets go bowling and have a drink... at a cocktailbar.. she accepted my offer everything is perfect. Last 2 days.. she totally changed on whatsapp... talking different, not showing interest.. laughing.. no more sweet words etc.. i am like W*F is wrong here i haven't done anything for real? So i have asked here.. so she was like well there is nothing i am just tired oke. THe day after we finally met..

 

AT FIRST she refused to give me a real hug.. smiling "FAKE".. keeping her distance.. so i told her are you into playing bowling right now who's gonna win? She said.. well you know i find bowling to be stupid.. to play with 2 people only lets have a drink only? I was like oke... i am clean, i shower every day, i have clean teeth, i have manners, clean clothes and especially my shoes are clean so it couldn't be the way i dress you know.

 

We went to a restaurant/bar a huge bench instead of saying sit next to me.. she decided to sit across me.. acting distant, i had the feeling like she is not having a great time i mean what have i done wrong i don't get it.. i just don't...

 

So i went home i tried to give her a real hug.. she smiled so fake.. after that she removed my facebook likes, removed me from facebook..

 

and after that being very rude on whatsapp? I don't get it lol..

 

i am really lost.. don't know what the heck is wrong with me.

 

She is like there is no connection between us? Excuse me miss, you refused the break the ice to play bowling.. where we can have fun.. refuse to sit next to me.. so i can NON-sexually touch you to show my interest.. you refuse to even TOUCH me.. on my shoulder or vice versa.. how can there be a connection if you refuse me at first?

 

Anyway i have learned from this.. don't trust anyone based on text messages and phone calls. Everything she told me.. how she is.. the way she thinks.. etc says nothing.

 

Please give me ur opinion guys.

I think you handled it ok. Not great, but certainly not badly.

 

I think that right here

She said.. well you know i find bowling to be stupid.. to play with 2 people only

was where you took a left turn. I mean, it wasn't about the bowling, right? It was about getting to know her a little. I think you did that.

 

Next time, just trust your instincts. If you think a girl isn't having a good time on a date, then stop the date cold. Explain that you can tell she's not having a good time and that you don't want to waste anybody's time. If she resists, all you have to do is say "if this is your idea of a good time, then I'm not interested." Then take her home. She'll either blow up your phone with apologies, or you'll never hear from her again.

 

It's tough to blow somebody off in the middle of a date, I know. Believe me, I know. You put in the time, you both showed interest, you want this to work. There's no reason it shouldn't. But when it isn't working, you don't really care why if she hasn't told you or is trying to fake it. F**k her! All you need to care about is what you're going to do about it.

 

Think about how much better you'd feel today if you did that. No problem, live and learn.

[Galanthus]

I appreciate that you like to pay for your date. All the men I've dated have done the same for me, however, I would never expect a man to pay if I was rude or impolite in anyway. When I go on dates I'm friendly, sweet, I always give them a hug when I meet them so I dont think they mind footing the bill

 

But why would this woman deserve to have you pay for her meal or drinks if she's not being respectful??? So, in the future, only pay for a date if the woman is being nice. And yes, end the date early if shes not.

 

As far as cleavage goes, or clothing style....thats not going to tell you much about a woman's character. I will say though... I dont think showing too much cleavage is ever a classy thing to do....I dont show too much...def not on a first date anyway..

 

I think she wanted your attention and someone to buy her drinks...next time...dont do either

 

 

Yes exactly, clothes doesn't say anything at all! Doesn't matter i have learned from this experience next time if a girls being rude for no apparent reason at all.. i am gonna end the date instantly.

 

Don't get me wrong its not like i am a angel... off course i love a cleavage, a woman with a nice figure.. who doesn't.

 

I mean i am a man 28 years old i am not a little kid really i can handle a HONEST rejection but if you don't give me a chance how i gods name can i try to break the ice.. and to see if there is any chemistry? I think from a woman perspective you will understand what i am talking about.

 

For that girl i wouldn't pay for a toothpick.

 

Btw how funny is thins? First looking for a real gentleman, a nice guy, who has some respect, doesn't look for sex, being mature having manners etc.. and at last you show ur real face by saying you like jersey shore type of guys isn't that a little bit funny?

[Galanthus]

I think you handled it ok. Not great, but certainly not badly.

 

I think that right here was where you took a left turn. I mean, it wasn't about the bowling, right? It was about getting to know her a little. I think you did that.

 

Next time, just trust your instincts. If you think a girl isn't having a good time on a date, then stop the date cold. Explain that you can tell she's not having a good time and that you don't want to waste anybody's time. If she resists, all you have to do is say "if this is your idea of a good time, then I'm not interested." Then take her home. She'll either blow up your phone with apologies, or you'll never hear from her again.

 

It's tough to blow somebody off in the middle of a date, I know. Believe me, I know. You put in the time, you both showed interest, you want this to work. There's no reason it shouldn't. But when it isn't working, you don't really care why if she hasn't told you or is trying to fake it. F**k her! All you need to care about is what you're going to do about it.

 

Think about how much better you'd feel today if you did that. No problem, live and learn.

 

Thank you very much my friend appreciate ur advice. You know what? I am the winner her! Staying like a real gentleman, being nice.. didn't insult her or being rude.. or saying anything wrong it is her fault.

 

I mean we planned playing bowling she was really interested.. to to that but giving me a lame excuse that is stupid come one how old are you? When she said that i would have END the date COLD instantly.. being rude at first sight and rejecting to have a great time.. where are ur manners? Acting like a high class lady but a personality like a broken record.

 

Yes you are right i agree, follow my gut feeling.. and trust me i had that weird feeling you know sitting with someone like you are having a job interview.. so awkward. I should have ended it then in instantly make her pay the bill with me and leave... like that lady said before. and yes F*CK her.. she is not worth me.

Let her go for the douche-bag guys Jersey shore looking guys who want to F*CK her.. apparently she likes that more... someone who uses her like a object.

 

But i have learned from it anyway.

[Gr8fuln2020]

Galanthus. My apologies. I missed the part of her losing interest a couple of days prior to the date.

 

She was definitely on the road to checking out. Perhaps not entirely as she did go on the date. Her rudeness is typical of those who want to find some antagonizing fault to justify their own feelings/guilt/frustration. Her rejection response, dislike of bowling, etc. were her ways to create a paradigm that makes you the bad guy. Some people simply will not admit when they are being a jerk, so they customize a reason to blame you.

 

Again, sorry for my previous response. In your case, it does not apply.

[Galanthus]

Galanthus. My apologies. I missed the part of her losing interest a couple of days prior to the date.

 

She was definitely on the road to checking out. Perhaps not entirely as she did go on the date. Her rudeness is typical of those who want to find some antagonizing fault to justify their own feelings/guilt/frustration. Her rejection response, dislike of bowling, etc. were her ways to create a paradigm that makes you the bad guy. Some people simply will not admit when they are being a jerk, so they customize a reason to blame you.

 

Again, sorry for my previous response. In your case, it does not apply.

 

Hey! No problem at all really. Yes, do you understand why i was thinking like wtf is going on? Not wanting to admit and tell me the truth but instead create a whole scenario. Doesn't matter who wants to be with someone like that in first place.. it is not going to change me at all.

[CaliforniaGirl]

Thank you very much my friend appreciate ur advice. You know what? I am the winner her! Staying like a real gentleman, being nice.. didn't insult her or being rude.. or saying anything wrong it is her fault.

 

I mean we planned playing bowling she was really interested.. to to that but giving me a lame excuse that is stupid come one how old are you? When she said that i would have END the date COLD instantly.. being rude at first sight and rejecting to have a great time.. where are ur manners? Acting like a high class lady but a personality like a broken record.

 

Yes you are right i agree, follow my gut feeling.. and trust me i had that weird feeling you know sitting with someone like you are having a job interview.. so awkward. I should have ended it then in instantly make her pay the bill with me and leave... like that lady said before. and yes F*CK her.. she is not worth me.

Let her go for the douche-bag guys Jersey shore looking guys who want to F*CK her.. apparently she likes that more... someone who uses her like a object.

 

But i have learned from it anyway.

 

My response to this does not seem to have gone through...

 

Let it suffice to say that I am NOT hearing "gentleman" in any of the above. The extreme anger in retaliation for the woman daring not to be interested in the OP does seem like something that would seep through whether he realized it was happening or not and I'd bet my left ovary something that he let "slip" without realizing it was what turned this woman off so abruptly. Then he apparently got her to go on the date anyway and her reservations proved to be true, her body language as described sounds like someone who is afraid...very "don't touch me, you make me REALLY nervous."

 

OP, the above does not illustrate "a gentleman" - it's actually kind of alarming.

[Galanthus]

My response to this does not seem to have gone through...

 

Let it suffice to say that I am NOT hearing "gentleman" in any of the above. The extreme anger in retaliation for the woman daring not to be interested in the OP does seem like something that would seep through whether he realized it was happening or not and I'd bet my left ovary something that he let "slip" without realizing it was what turned this woman off so abruptly. Then he apparently got her to go on the date anyway and her reservations proved to be true, her body language as described sounds like someone who is afraid...very "don't touch me, you make me REALLY nervous."

 

OP, the above does not illustrate "a gentleman" - it's actually kind of alarming.

 

 

First of all READ my previous messages.. before replying you don't know.. me don't judge ok? lol.. what do you know? Defending her just because she is a girl pretty.

 

i am right here 100% i don't mind saying if it is my fault..

[CaliforniaGirl]

First of all READ my previous messages.. before replying you don't know.. me don't judge ok? lol.. what do you know? Defending her just because she is a girl pretty.

 

i am right here 100% i don't mind saying if it is my fault..

 

I did read them. I am not defending a girl because she is pretty...that doesn't make sense? I am sorry, can you clarify?

 

I only judged, if you will, your own words. You want to know what happened. I am telling you as a woman that this extreme an attitude isn't hard to pick up on. I can tell you that from experience. You wanted ideas/theories; that's mine. She got a glimmer of this somewhere in your conversations, cooled off fast, figured she'd try the date anyway to see if she was just crazy, then picked up more on it right away and kept her distance.

 

That may be right or it may he wrong but I stand by what I said - what you posted was beyond not gentlemanly so if you want to be considered a gentleman you will need to change that attitude. It shows. That's up to you, though.

[Miss Peach]

I've met people online who I click with over messaging but I didn't click with in person. My guess is that's what happened here and when she sensed it she tried to shorten the date to a drink.

[GemmaUK]

I am telling you as a woman that this extreme an attitude isn't hard to pick up on. I can tell you that from experience. You wanted ideas/theories; that's mine. She got a glimmer of this somewhere in your conversations, cooled off fast, figured she'd try the date anyway to see if she was just crazy, then picked up more on it right away and kept her distance.

 

That may be right or it may he wrong but I stand by what I said - what you posted was beyond not gentlemanly so if you want to be considered a gentleman you will need to change that attitude. It shows. That's up to you, though.

 

This is exactly what I thought when I posted my original post in here.

[fairyfloff]

Enough good real lady's and not the look a like once.. will appreciate the way i am. I don't say anything rude, disrespectful or not even a word about about something sexual.

 

But.. she likes Jersey Shore guys.. that's what she told me 2 days ago.. that must be it.

 

Clothes say nothing that's what i have learned from it.. no big deal i will find someone who fits me just perfectly.

 

you sound kind of arrogant already to be honest.

"But.. she likes Jersey Shore guys.. that's what she told me 2 days ago.. that must be it." - that MUST be it??

I went on a couple of dates recently and one of the guys was a complete nightmare, self-deluded - kept bragging how much money he had, all these girls who made moves on him and kept asking me out daily it was so annoying! He said so many inappropriate things and I feel like you may have come across the wrong way also

 

and from all your other posts, you definitely don't sound like a gentleman at all.

Edited February 15, 2017 by fairyfloff

[Galanthus]

you sound kind of arrogant already to be honest.

"But.. she likes Jersey Shore guys.. that's what she told me 2 days ago.. that must be it." - that MUST be it??

I went on a couple of dates recently and one of the guys was a complete nightmare, self-deluded - kept bragging how much money he had, all these girls who made moves on him and kept asking me out daily it was so annoying! He said so many inappropriate things and I feel like you may have come across the wrong way also

 

and from all your other posts, you definitely don't sound like a gentleman at all.

 

Who are you exactly? Do we know each other? We don't so stop telling me the WAY I AM ok?

[goldway90]

Enough good real lady's and not the look a like once.. will appreciate the way i am. I don't say anything rude, disrespectful or not even a word about about something sexual.

 

But.. she likes Jersey Shore guys.. that's what she told me 2 days ago.. that must be it.

 

Clothes say nothing that's what i have learned from it.. no big deal i will find someone who fits me just perfectly.

 

You just don't know how to flirt, this exactly why you got rejected. You're such a nice guy but you'll be a great friend.