Cpuueba Posted February 11, 2017 Posted February 11, 2017 I'm a college student and have this girl in 2 of my classes, so I see her everyday. I started talking to her and after 3 days I asked her out for some coffee, she said yes and we went and got coffee right after class the next day and we had a pretty good time together. After that I asked her out on a weekend and she said she had a lot of homework, and I understand that because I did too. Then that coming week I asked her out again on Tuesday to go out on Thursday and she said she would have too see because she was pretty busy doing school work, and again I understand because I did too. On Wednesday I walked her to her car after class and I told her that I though she was really cute and smart, and she blushed and said thanks. Well, Thursday came and no answer from her. Again, I see her everyday in class and I talk to her everyday. She talks to me in a very active way, she's not trying to like avoid me or anything, she laughs and engages in conversation every time... but every time it's time to say bye, she just says bye without really stopping or turning to face me completely (since we are walking side by side). Do you guys think I should keep trying to ask her out and talking to her? She's never trying to avoid me but she's not showing many sign of interest, at least when I talk to her after class. I really like her and she probably knows that but still she doesn't show many signs of interest, otherwise she would try and make some time to go out with me or she would at least stop to talk to me a little more before leaving. :S What do y'all think? By the way I've been talking to her for 1 week and a half only.
preraph Posted February 11, 2017 Posted February 11, 2017 I'd have to say she's not interested that way but likes you in a friendly way. I mean, it's up to her to suggest an alternate time when she can go out and she has not done that. 1
Belle23 Posted February 11, 2017 Posted February 11, 2017 Id stop trying. You've given her plenty of opportunities to say yes. She's also had plenty of opportunities to say "no, I can't go X day because I have a lot of homework. How about we go X day instead?" At this point, is back off and she if she approaches you and shows interest that way. After some time, if she shows more interest, then ask her out. Not anymore right now though.
dumbass2 Posted February 11, 2017 Posted February 11, 2017 "she doesn't show many signs of interest" This answers you questions. Stop pursuing her that way and let her come around if she wants, but she has to show you something from here on out otherwise it's just you two being friends/acquaintances. 1
mightycpa Posted February 11, 2017 Posted February 11, 2017 What they all said. If we're wrong, she'll let you know.
GoldSparkz Posted February 11, 2017 Posted February 11, 2017 Judging by her actions, my guess is that she is just being nice and has no intention to take things forward with you. You should really just read the signs and go by your instinct which to me suggests that she is happy to have you as a friend but not a romantic partner. If you are OK with this then continue to be her friend as it seems as though she appreciates you being around, but don't make any further effort to woo her as you'll end up chasing her away.
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