rookie416 Posted July 22, 2005 Posted July 22, 2005 I'm almost 20 and seem to be a very likeable girl. I've been in a 2 1/2 year relationship which ended 2 years ago and have dated quite a lot since then. Problem is in every relationship that i get in now after about 2 or 3 months i seem to get tired of the guy and feel every time he comes around he is just so annoying!! So i try to get some space and may even break it off, but not too long after i find myself wanting to be with the guy again. I am in a relationship now that i feel is starting to turn into the mess i just stated. I do feel that i really like this guy and he would be a perfect guy to some day....awhile from now be married to. I don't want to break this off like i usually would and then in two weeks want to be back with him and risk him not wanting to be with me. i don't know why i have these feelings when he's such a good guy but how am i supposed to get over this? He hasnt done anything wrong and he is sweet as could be. why do i feel that he is getting on my nerves and want to be away from him so much? I dont know why this always happens and what to do about it......
KellyGirl Posted July 23, 2005 Posted July 23, 2005 Sounds like me after I broke it off with my BF of 3 years when I was 18. After that I just wasn't really looking for a serious relationship so I wouldn't let myself get "too involved", that way they were easier to discard when I was "over it". (which was 3 or 4 months) Then I met a wonderful man and I must have been ready to be in a relationship again because without even expecting it I fell head over heels in love. I think it's all just timing. You just need to have fun and be yourself, don't worry so much about why things aren't clicking with Mr. Nice Guy because Mr. Right Guy may be just around the corner! You know it when you find him! Good Luck!
fundamental Posted July 24, 2005 Posted July 24, 2005 Maybe you just enjoy the thrill of a new relationship and want nothing to do with a "real" relationship--actually getting the know the person (good and bad qualities). So, you just get fed up and move on. Seems like you don't want a serious relationship and you are not willing to admit that to yourself.
mac007 Posted July 24, 2005 Posted July 24, 2005 If you two share the same goals, then that is a start. You do have your own goals, right? Do you have an older family or friend nearby that gives you advice?
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