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Sorry if I am not posting this in the right place, but I just need some advice!

 

So, last week a mutual friend, we'll call him M, invited my cousin and I to join them for a "jam session." We basically just hung out, played some music on the guitar and piano, and then sang our hearts out.

 

Anyways, I met a guy, we'll just call him N, and he's super funny and chill. Flash forward to THIS week, and my friend M invited my cousin and I over again. We went and by then I had already realized that I sorta like N. The whole night I was trying NOT to be awkward and not make it obvious but it was hard. N was super nice to me though and was always checking up on me to make sure that I was comfortable.

 

I guess what I really need advice on, is if I should ask to hang out with him outside of our jam session. He graduated last semester, so I won't even see him on campus. I'm going to see him tomorrow though because our friends are going to a Valentine's Party on campus, and I would really like to get to know him outside of our "jam sessions." But, I also don't want to scare him off either.

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yeah just ask him out what do u have to lose u will just end up finding out whether his interested or not

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He seems interested in your well being that's good trait. Yes I have to agree you need to ask him, just come out and ask?

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If this guy really likes you, he will find opportunity to ask you out.

 

****If you scare him off he was never interested in the first place.

 

Just be flirty and smile extra with him so he gets that you like him too.

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